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    Default Not sure if girl is interested in me

    So i met this girl G about a month ago at a club via some mutual friends and the game was on (my friend A told me the girl was interested), so the next week i arranged via A to meet G again at another club where we danced and kissed and everything was fine except one thing. Some of her friends kept dragging her away although she was obviously interested. At the end of the night i told her to come with me to the exit cause i was going to leave, we exchanged phone numbers, i kissed her and left. The next week i was able to meet her again with the help of A, and me and G were able to talk a bit, and she even bought me a drink. Then we went to a club and danced but she told me not to look her in the eyes for some strange reason (i assumed she didn't want me to kiss her). After a while her friends came and interrupted us continuously until they dragged her away. A few days passed and i text her to arrange a meeting but she didn't answer my message. I went to meet A last night and A told me G was going to be there. When i went to meet A, G wasn't there but came to our table about half an hour later, sat for 2 minutes and left. What should i make of this? Should i text her today and ask her whats the problem? Any advice would be really helpful.

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    Default Re: Not sure if girl is interested in me

    Well, I see several things that went wrong in this interaction. This is going to take a little bit so bear with me.

    The first was that your wingman crashed the plane for you. Never, and I mean NEVER, should you make a girl your wingman. Even when they are helping you out, girls are still very protective in their interests with you. When you got girl G's number, you should have ditched girl A, because you didn't need her in order to get an interaction going. This is explained by the fact that girl A consistently responded and came to your answers. She may be your friend, but she screwed you over buddy.

    The second problem was that you were macking on girl G way too much. How much conversation did you have with her? All I read was dancing and making out. Women are very social and emotional creatures, they depend on interaction in order to survive. If you don't fulfill that requirement, they are going to run out on you. She most likely didn't feel enough rapport building and attraction, and she only thought of you as someone who was trying to get into her pants. Thus, she had her friends bail her out when they could.

    The third problem was that you did not win the group over. You may have thought they were all on board with you because the target was attracted to you, but all they know about you is that you just like to dance and kiss. If you win over the group, you win over the target. That's the key rule to group pickup that Mystery, David X, virtually everyone emphasizes.

    The fourth was that you remained static in your choice of environment. All you did was clubbing and more clubbing. Once you got her number, you should have carried things to a different scenery; a restaurant, a park, your house, her house, the movies, it doesn't really matter where. All you have to do is just show yourself as a guy who is not focused on hitting up the night life all the time. Show that you have a little spontaneity and variety in your life.

    Taking all of these into consideration, things with girl G are done. She's flown the coop for all of the above reasons. It's best to move on and remember all of these points well.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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