Re: My Sticking Point.. Assistance?
I might be seeing the problem here, but I have to know this: is the target usually with her group when you are trying to close her? If so, then that is the reason. If you don't completely isolate her from the group, then she will remain dependent on the group.
There's another problem though: if the group does not fully approve of you, they will not back you up. As I have learned from David X, the opinion and dynamics of the group can affect the decisions of the target in question. If you win the group, you win the target.
So how do you do both when they are two completely different things?
Simple: you do one, and then the other. First you win over the group, and then you isolate the target, get alone in the booth somewhere, build up attraction and keep her anticipating for more until she just can't control herself anymore. You then tell her that you two should make a change of scenery, you go back to the hotel room, and then presto! Success is in your grasp
Oh! One last thing: the key to all of this though is to have patience and hold her off. If you immediately let her jump on you and make out with you at the bar, then she would have gotten her fill. She's not going to invest the effort to go from the bar to the hotel. You have got to keep her waiting all the while sexually escalating things. It's the factor that she will go crazy that will cause her to go to the hotel with you.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X