Re: "Taking it slow" problem!
Thats a really long instant date. Try not to reveal too much about yourself so you can keep that sense of mystery. The best way to do so is by having shorter 'get togethers'; the reason this would benefit you is because she has experienced being around you for an extended amount of time already. Which is exactly what she will expect on the next date.
Women like the unexpected.
Women like unpredictable men.
Unpredictable men do the unexpected.
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