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Thread: HB12 from the past...

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    Default HB12 from the past...

    I need some advice. Pat on the back. MOJO INJECTION.

    Quick run down. 10-12 years ago I use to date this amazing hot chick. She was so amazing that a modeling agency swiped her up and she went off to model for a few years. We were off and on.

    Before I got in my last LTR she shot be down pretty hard. Think I called her when she was in town or something and she told me she would call me back in a sec and never did. So I never tried contacting her since. But that was a lonnnnng time ago. I have always made a point not to add X's to Facebook. I always let them add me.

    So i've been out of that LTR since being here. But a few weeks ago she hit me up on LinkedIn out of all places. I pretty much just ignored it. So tonight she adds me on Facebook.

    She is seriously hot as ever. I want to game this girl. Even if it doesn't work out if I could just go out w/ her would be fun from the attention from other girls. She was always a chick magnet when I was out w/ her in the past.

    Truthfully, this is not a case of oneitis. So go easy on me w/ that. I just don't think i have any experience w/ a HB10. Most the girls I game as of late are HB7 HB8 so i'm thinking i read about the game changing w/ a HB10.

    She appears single. I'm single. I'm ready to play some ball! What's the play coach???

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    Default Re: HB12 from the past...

    Game her exactly as you would the 7's and the 8's but better. Keep your distance, be aloof, frame her chasing you (once you build comfort, make suggestive comments about her tracking you down on Facebook and whether she'll be peering through your window next) and build up towards an eventual meet.

    Emphasise that you are a stronger, confident, healthy, busy man with a full life and that you won't take any messing and she'll do whatever it takes to be a part of that.

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    Default Re: HB12 from the past...

    Dude get out of here. You will never get that girl. Sad Truth
    What you need will not come quickly. WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS WHAT YOU FEAR. Take comfort that what you seek is there. But you will NEVER have it if you keep being a p$ssy.

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    Default Re: HB12 from the past...

    Don't listen to the nay-sayers. If you bagged her before, you can do it again.

    I see a lot of these get-back-together posts and people advising to play them like a fresh target. (No offense to Lunchbox, he's spot on about how to game a HB10 in general.) I think these cases usually depend on more detail about what happened before.

    On one hand, sounds like there was no messy breakup or anything like that here, just two people who got it on, and then drifted apart. That's a plus for playing up prior positive experiences instead of strictly treating it like a fresh target.

    On the OTHER hand, it has been a solid decade. Investment and good memories perhaps aren't without an expiration date...

    On the OTHER OTHER hand, if I understand this correctly, you've had no contact whatsoever for years, and out of the blue she's single and she messages you on a social network, and when you don't respond adds you to yet ANOTHER social network. Unless you owe her money, I'd say that's a seriously good indication she's looking for a hookup, especially considering the off and on in-town/out-of-town nature of your prior relationship. I mean, this sounds like it was a FWB before, not like trying to keep up with an old friend from school.

    I'd take a long hard look at whatever you did to win her over the first time (or times). Be careful getting too caught up in being "better" than you were back then, she contacted to out of the blue not knowing anything about the new you and probably reminiscing about the old you, so I would focus more about getting in the mindset of the man you were when you bagged her before, and accentuating the qualities she liked about you then. Maybe even anchor in some of the memories, places, activities you had together then.

    Not saying go overboard and try to turn back all the calendars in the house, but I'm just saying somebody doesn't suddenly go hard after something they had ten years ago unless they're really aching for some feeling they had then. Do whatever it takes to recreate that feeling in her. If she went to such effort to track you down, she's probably already feeling it, so all you really have to do is just feed it and grow it.

    I mean, unless there was something specific to this "shot down pretty hard" event... Definitely don't be whatever guy you were at that point.

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    Default Re: HB12 from the past...

    I really appreciate the insight guys. My thing lately has been making sure i'm confident 24/7 so it really helps w/ the advice. Sometimes I get caught off guard by a HB and freeze.

    Lunchbox: She's already sent me a playful message so I'm definitely going to pull the stalker card on her.

    Devil_Dog: I'm kinda curious why you think it's impossible?

    Magnum: No it wasn't a bad break up. It was definitely more of a FWB type thing. At the time I took it as being 'shot down pretty hard'. But looking back it may just have been a AFC move by me. Maybe she was really busy and just forgot to call me back. I'm definitely in a better place now. It's kinda hard to morph back into a college days but yeah I'm totally w/ you on recreating some of those memories we had together.

    And for the general population: I see a lot of people coming in this forum about trying to win their X back. Truth is, if you handle the situation right and don't go AFC on these girls they will be curious about you in the long run. Take care of yourself and by the time you are in your 30s you will find out what the 'sweet spot' is....and it's a beautiful thing!

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    Default Re: HB12 from the past...

    So here's the update. I've been out of state 3 different weeks but have been messaging her the whole time. It's went very well! I pulled all the tricks Lunchbox stated and everything has went smooth. I builded comfort, hinted around about the past, did the stalker thing. I even used a few other tricks I learned on the forum.

    I think it's time I do the meet up thing. Just not sure what the best way is.
    We actually live in different cities. Figured it'd be more alpha if I told her to come here.

    Any suggestions guys? Thanks!


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