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Thread: What happened??

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    Default What happened??

    If any of you read my old thread you know most of the story but if not I'll keep it short.

    We met at work, she already has/had a boyfriend, things happened between us, she's confused. Her boyfriend is a douchebag, and multiple times it's seemed as if he's trying to end it but doesn't have the balls to do so. They are going to the same community college and he lives 7 minutes from her, yet can't find time to see her.

    Anyway, a few weeks ago she said she was feeling guilty about things and we needed to stop because it was wrong, and I agreed.

    I told her it would take me some time and until then we needed to stop communication and we did. I had to go up there one night for something at work and walked past her, I casually asked if she was having fun and kept moving, she was still trying to talk as I left lol.

    Few days later it was slow at work and she was off, she always complained about the busy days so I texted her saying "You're missing the slow night"... 15 seconds later she replied... usually it took 5 minutes or so.

    I went out of town for 4 days to visit family and friends back home, I don't get cell service in all the areas up there so when I did text her it was at random times, each time she was readily available, so she was not with him, and has not once mentioned him since we started talking again, before she'd let me know if they had plans or just what was going on between them.

    She was all concerned because I was out drinking with friends the other night and I just laughed it off like whatever. I was coming home yesterday and she was talking about being sick, I jokingly said well I'll be right over to fix things (I was 5 hours away...), her reply was to come rub her whole body...

    I let it go and didn't say anything about it. I had to run in work for something when I got home, talked to her and her mom for like 5 minutes. Got home last night and we were texting after she got off work till 2 am. She was still sick so I tossed me coming to rub her down as a joke. She said "you should".

    I told her she knew better than to give me those ideas and besides her mom or her boyfriend wouldn't like it much.

    Her reply: "I wanted to hug you so bad earlier :/" completely ignored her mom or the boyfriend part of it.

    We were all originally going to the beach next month and she backed out, but apparently is thinking about it again.

    She told me to hush about it jokingly so I told her not to boss me around, she says what are you gonna do about it? I told her I knew where she slept and I'd come over there. She said "I could only be so fortunate .

    Today is her first day of college and she has no clue where her class is at, I was like do I need to come hold your hand on your first day? She said yes and I replied with... "I gotta work :/.. Besides isn't that what the boyfriend should be doing? :P"

    Am I looking too far into this, or could he possibly be gone? She's ignored every single reference to him I can make, and that's not like her at all. She spent a few days last week with a friend who knew about us and missed work because of is, keep in mind this is the only friend outside of work who knew... so I'm lost.

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    Default Re: What happened??

    Yeah you're looking too deep into it. She seems like the type who just wants to have a little misadventure. If you want it to stop just say it.
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: What happened??

    Where is he at then? He has not been around her at all. They are going to the same school, yet her granny took her instead of him?

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    Default Re: What happened??

    I think she is just a bit of a validation seeker. If she broke up with her boyfriend or really wanted to ditch him, she would have said that to you, especially since you mentioned the boyfriend a couple of times. So she's still with him.

    She just likes your attention, maybe the boyfriend doesn't give her that much attention or she just clamps to every attention she can get. If she really wanted to be with you, she would have taken some concrete action.

    Maybe not the thing you wanted to hear, but you can keep her on the back burner. Just put your focus on other girls and see how things are progessing with this girl.


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