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    Default Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    I am 24 years opld with no relationship experience. I have had over 100 rejections this past year. I am on a college campus, but nothing works. I am in 2 clubs and a fraternity, but no results. I have tried social circle and day game. The only conclusion I have come up with is my height. I am shorter than most women. Should I get the surgery. I am willing to deal with the pain and my family will provide money, so that is not an issue
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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    No man you could find girls who like you for who you are. I don't have that problem so I cant exactly speak from experience, but I feel you are just using this as an excuse and there's something else that harms your game.

    Tell me, when you open, do you make girls laugh? Do you break the touch barrier the second you see them? Do you dress nice? Are you hygenic? What kind of openers do you use (direct or indirect)? Are you confident when you talk and joke around with girls?

    All of these things and many many more drastically affect your results. I feel that while it may make it harder, you're just using your height as an excuse for the bad results. Believe me, people with way worse of problems have the ability to get girls. If my cousin with cerebal paulsy (spelling?) who cant even walk, is balding already, and is obese can get a gorgeous girl (and he is engaged to one right now), then you can too. I recommend reading more about game, watching tons of in field videos, and try again. Post your results, be specific. Like how do you approach, where, when, etc.

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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    Man...I'd say no. I'll explain why, based on physical health and confidence.

    My aunt had the same operation. She spent about 1-2 months on a wheelchair and couple more months with those crutches. She also spent extensive time rehabbing, she could barely raise her legs to climb stairs or getting in a car, even after she gave up on the crutches.

    In addition, you'll have these lifelong scars on your legs. And I'm not even talking about the metal rods, screws and nails between your leg bones which will awfully limit your working out possibilities, lifting/carrying some stuff around, basically any activity that puts pressure on your legs. In short, you'll never recover 100% physically.

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    Look, I can't say I feel you bro or whatever that sh1t is. Because I'll probably never understand what you're going through. But I could try.

    I'm a hardcore basketball player but a short one compared to the average height of basketball players. I needed to do hell of a work to figure my way around the taller dudes. I needed to figure out my areas of expertise. Was it easy? Of course not. And I'm still working. Do I wish that I was taller? Hell yes, every single day. But did it ever stop me from working/trying/failing? Fark no. There was only one thing in my mind. That I loved the game and I wasn't going to cheat my way around by getting some surgery or by using some drugs in my case.

    Still not enough inspiration? Okay.

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    What if when you get old? What if when you get retired from the game? Physically, when you get old, your legs will turn into rubber anyways. Add the weakness that surgery created. You'll probably be imprisoned with a wheelchair for the last couple years of your life.

    Emotionally, let's say you got married with the woman of your dreams or you got whatever you wanted from the game. Will you think you've played a fair game? What will you feel when your girl learns about the surgery and tells you, sincerely, that she fell for something else in you other than your fake confidence which was built up by some fake bones?

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    What if you keep getting rejected after you get the surgery? What will you feel then? Wasted all that money, time and effort for nothing but couple inches? Think about this.

    PS: I've never forgave nor understood my aunt when she made that decision. She sacrificed a piece of her health to gain some confidence. You can't reverse big surgeries and get your health back. But on the contrary, confidence is abstract, unstable and gradual. There are countless ways to build up or lose confidence. Some days you are confident and some days you are not.

    Feel free to agree or disagree.
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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    The fact that both of you guys have no idea what a short guy goes through gives me reason to doubt your arguements. What if it is my height? Do you know very short guys who are successful with women? I mean under 5 foot 4

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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    Quote Originally Posted by Sun Devil View Post
    The fact that both of you guys have no idea what a short guy goes through gives me reason to doubt your arguements. What if it is my height? Do you know very short guys who are successful with women? I mean under 5 foot 4
    And I'm saying, what if it isn't your height? Are you willing to take the risk? It's a huge one.

    Normally, even risks have safety nets. You can usually try again or start over. But you have one shot at this, you'll not be able to take the surgery back if it doesn't make any difference in your life.
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    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    I see guys with worse personalities than me get girls. I have seen guys uglier than me get girls. I have not seen guys my height get girls. I have seen studies that prove women want taller guys. Unless I see something else, I can only narrow it down to my height. If it is my height, I am willing to go through with the risk. Besides, most people do not have this side effect. Did your aunt go to a good doctor?

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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    Quote Originally Posted by Sun Devil View Post
    I see guys with worse personalities than me get girls. I have seen guys uglier than me get girls. I have not seen guys my height get girls. I have seen studies that prove women want taller guys. Unless I see something else, I can only narrow it down to my height. If it is my height, I am willing to go through with the risk. Besides, most people do not have this side effect. Did your aunt go to a good doctor?
    She's perfectly fine. It's just, she can't be as active as she used to be. She needs to be careful doing stuff involving her legs. And her surgery was several years ago, I'm sure the tech must be improved by then.
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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    I think it wise to find yourself a good local mentor. We should really exhaust all options before resorting to something as serious as surgery. The last thing you want is to get the surgery, fully recover, and you're still having issues meeting women. That may just push you over the edge. I know it would me if I took drastic steps to appear more attractive to the opposite sex and it didn't work.
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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    Sun Devil,

    I am going to agree with what others have said here. Make sure that your game is top notch before you attempt the surgery.

    Look into the surgical procedure. Look into the reputation of the physician who will be performing the surgery. Most importantly try to contact others who have had the surgery. Ask them if they would go through that pain and rehabilitation again knowing what they know now. Talk to as many people as you can BEFORE you decide to go through with it.

    Part of the game is confidence. If you can't feel confident and secure about yourself then it will show up in your body language.

    We live in a day and age where medical procedures can improve your appearance but that should be used as a last resort.

    I have a buddy that had a HUGE nose. Not only was it big but it had the shape of the nose on a bald eagle. After the procedure his confidence is sky high and it shows in his body language.

    I am against those who use plastic surgery for minor things but if it's a MAJOR hurdle in their life then I encourage others to seek the pros and cons of the surgical procedure.

    Surgery alone will not improve your game. Just be aware of that.

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    Default Re: Should a 5 foot tall guy get leg lengthening surgery

    Watch some of David Tian's stuff on youtube, I think it will help.
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