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    Question How to keep her interested while away

    I went abroad two months back and left a girl in C1/C2 back home. I took my girlfriend with me, so initially I didn't worry about that other one so much. But as the time passed the girl back home (let's call her V) kept texting me and sending me e-mails. I didn't reply at first, but then I thought I might me throwing away something pretty great (both her and my gf are nice HB9) I might miss once I get back - which would be a couple of months from now. Did you by any chance have a similar situation - meaning you were forced to separate from your target for a long time? How did you or how would you play it to keep her at least potentially interested when you get back, if you feel she's worth the trouble? I'd be really grateful for your advice on this one.

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    Default Re: How to keep her interested while away

    If there's really no change of meeting up with her, then you should keep texting/mailing/calling. Keep things interesting, ask some qualifying questions like: "tell me something about you almost nobody knows." You could also try to get a "we" future dynamic. Thus creating a future situation with each other in her mind. If you talked about working out together for instance, then you should tell her that you guys will do that together in the future. Make some kind of non concrete plans, this way she will think about you and her in the future.

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    Default Re: How to keep her interested while away

    Thank you. I like what you said about the "we" future dynamic. Except for using conversatios we've had and somehow building on that (like e.g. she mentioned yoga, so I could say I'd like to do some yoga with her in the future and such), do you have any advice on how to do it without making it sound a bit forced? I mean I want it to be believable, but at the same time I ignored her for the past 2 months and left sort of without notice. Plus we never got to full monty, which might be a reason for her to stop trying (she's been suprisingly consistent so far though, exactly what cought my attention and made me think on it and start this thread...).


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