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    Default Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    Hey guys,

    So I'm going to be meeting this single girl for the first time in several months for one day. I'm going to be her "tour guide" essentially for the whole day. She is coming to my school to perform for a charity concert. Ideally I would like to date her but will also settle for friendship, at first anyways. I want to be able to appear different from the thousands of other guys that she meets, I want to be stuck her her head, get her to be totally thinking about me days after our meeting, I want her to say "there's just something about him that feels right".

    Now there are tons of details and other things that can be mentioned and discussed, just ask away ex. what the girl is like etc...

    ALL help advice tips ANYTHING is wanted and very much appreciated.
    If things go right, this WILL change my life.

    Thanks,

    Chris

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    Why will this change your life?
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    Is she going to be your oneitis?
    Always be honest with women. That's the true meaning of a PUA.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    With this girl just think what would an AFC do right now? Just do the opposite.

    Cocky and funny guys will get a girls attention. Use it wisely throughout the day. Make sure your body language projects you as a confident guy.

    Never put all of your eggs into one basket. When you seek many you will find the one. You are making her your oneitis as Ed wrote and that's not a good thing.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    That's a lot of pressure man. I get anxious just thinking about it.
    How big do you want to go?
    The situation is veiled and a little confusing. If she's going to be talking to thousands of men...I would do something that pins you on the front page of the newspaper. I think more details could be helpful in addressing this.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    Wolf: Because not only is she an outstanding girl in personality and appearance but with her (if in a solid relationship) the life opportunities are endless, such as travel, career advancement, financial stability which is why I said it "could change my life". However those are just rewards of a strong relationship with her and not the motivation to be with her.

    Ed: She isn't my oneitis but wouldn't that be sweet though? Life with an up-and-coming famous celebrity singer/musician, I'd take it.

    Dave: Thank you first off for advice. So you're saying that the opposite of an AFC is one way to make yourself more unique, interesting, and appealing?

    How can being slightly cocky and funny differentiate you from any other person who acts that way? How can I incorporate it but still tailor it to her personally so as to make a connection to seem "different" than allll the other guys she meets?

    Because that's the goal to be different but in a uniquely interesting way (which I already am unique) so that she remembers who I am and will think about me because I IMPACTED her enough to do so. It's my thinking that if I appear unlike the "normal" guys she'll take interest in me and NOT filter me out like her mind does with every other fan of hers. You have to play it cool, you're not a crazed fan you're a subtly flirty friend. If I can get her talking and feeling with me on a deeper personal level above all the BS and fluffy fan sh*t that comes with the fame, I might have a chance.

    Let me know what you think of what I've said thus far

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    Sounds like you see this lady that she has higher value than you, in fact, way too higher. This thought might make you too nervous and demolish your game eventually.

    I know you might hear this everywhere but I'm saying this again, you should adapt the mindset that you have higher value than her, thus you are the prize. Because it's true.

    You will change her life by getting in a relationship with her, in a good way. Not the opposite. Adapt this thought and see your nervousness vanish.
    It's not about who I was or who I'm going to become.

    It's about who I am. Do it right here, right now.

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    Default Re: Help Wanted! Once in a lifetime opportunity to get the girl.

    bro i know you don't want to hear it but you cant control her, instead of focusing on making her obsessed with you focus on having a good time with her and getting her will not change your life it will just add a fun factor that's it
    Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys does.


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