I've read a lot about how women respond to feeling a range of emotions. I'd like some insight into that. I get how push/pull in the initial phase achieves that and keeping her unsure uncomfortable about whether you want her or not is an aspect.
But what about deeper than that? What about once you're in a relationship? Especially in an exclusive relationship? I think a sticking point for me is once I start to fall in love I just want everything to go smooth (although it never does). I think naturally I don't like conflict and try to resolve problems (great sometimes, kicks me in the butt at others). How to keep that emotion flowing once you're past the initial phases and have the girl?