Re: asking out girl met on the street, who resists cause of boyfreind
Bro, she's clearly taken. Your approach was already screwed up because you interrupted her while she was talking to her boyfriend over the phone. It took you some time to persuade her because she most likely didn't want to deal with you. Given that she told you she had a bf when you tried to get the number, and she was in a constant push state, the number was a way to get you off of her back.
In addition, you don't try to push for another meet-up just when you met up with her, and ESPECIALLY if you know she has a boyfriend. You have hardly built up any rapport with her, so when you asked her to do whatever, she immediately went into lock-down mode. That's what will happen when you skip a stage of attraction.
Lastly, by the sounds of it, you kept pushing for the interaction when you called her. No matter what you do, a no means a no. She may have given you a probable date, but in all cases it's probably not going to happen.
Unfortunately, you need to move on. I know it sucks, it has happened to me before. It's just unhealthy to get fixated on a girl, especially in this circumstance where she's taken. You can always try bf destroyer, but you have sprung the trap one too many times and now she's on to you. Just think of it like this: you think this girl is amazing, but when you move on from her, when is the next time you will feel like you and a woman have a great connection? I can guarantee you it won't be never, so keep your chin up and keep improving as you ease on down the road
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X