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    Default asking out girl met on the street, who resists cause of boyfreind

    hi.

    I need help, last saturday i met nice girl on the street, she was talking on phone. I approached her and opened with some txt "I need your help bla bla". Took me some time to persuade her to stop talking with her boyfriend on phone. Then i made her give me her phone number + nice hug ^^ (after some 20 minutes ) Anyway, i called her on tuesday to ask her out, but she said that she has boyfriend and that she doesnt go out with guys who she met on the street. I told her however that she told me same when I asked her number and yet she still gave me. Anyway we talked few minutes, she was laughing all the time and kept saying shes sorry she cant go and she told me that maybe next week ( that which begins 26 august) So now is friday, and I begin to wonder if i should text her someting funny just to keep in touch or call sunday and try again. If I should write, then what? (maybe some joke about her that she broke a glass when she was talking to me last time on phone ) If just call then also what to tell?

    She's HB8,5, 20, maybe more yo, i am 22 and I want some advice, beacuse i felt very good talking to her and dont want to lose this opportunity

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    Default Re: asking out girl met on the street, who resists cause of boyfreind

    Bro, she's clearly taken. Your approach was already screwed up because you interrupted her while she was talking to her boyfriend over the phone. It took you some time to persuade her because she most likely didn't want to deal with you. Given that she told you she had a bf when you tried to get the number, and she was in a constant push state, the number was a way to get you off of her back.

    In addition, you don't try to push for another meet-up just when you met up with her, and ESPECIALLY if you know she has a boyfriend. You have hardly built up any rapport with her, so when you asked her to do whatever, she immediately went into lock-down mode. That's what will happen when you skip a stage of attraction.

    Lastly, by the sounds of it, you kept pushing for the interaction when you called her. No matter what you do, a no means a no. She may have given you a probable date, but in all cases it's probably not going to happen.

    Unfortunately, you need to move on. I know it sucks, it has happened to me before. It's just unhealthy to get fixated on a girl, especially in this circumstance where she's taken. You can always try bf destroyer, but you have sprung the trap one too many times and now she's on to you. Just think of it like this: you think this girl is amazing, but when you move on from her, when is the next time you will feel like you and a woman have a great connection? I can guarantee you it won't be never, so keep your chin up and keep improving as you ease on down the road
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: asking out girl met on the street, who resists cause of boyfreind



    thx for info, I would move on normally, though in this case i wanted some help Now i got help and i will move on, dont worry i saw her once will find other girls :P


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