Re: Why do rejection messages come after 24 hours?
I think it's just coincidence. It generally doesn't take a long time to figure out whether you like someone or not. The case of the 24 hours is probably because she is going through partial rejection. She is not sure of whether she should just get rid of you, or if she should give you another chance. In those cases, she decided to just move on from you.
The reason why they are turning you down after the dates is because you're doing something wrong during the in-person interaction. I'm not sure if it's rapport, attraction, what you're saying, how you're reacting to her, and so on, but either way there's a problem. I would recommend doing some research on the forums, find some books recommended by the puas, and do some reading.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X