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    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Why do rejection messages come after 24 hours?

    Hi guys,

    I have noticed a pattern in girl's rejection messages and I wonder what is the reason behind it.

    If I go on a date with a girl and (for her) it does not work... and say I text her after date and say "I would love to meet you again" or something along those lines.. normally I get no message for 24 hours. Then I get a text message saying that I have landed in her friendzone!

    Can anyone tell me why is that?

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    Default Re: Why do rejection messages come after 24 hours?

    They most likely don't want to hurt you. They're thinking of the best possible way to deliver the message. And maybe they're hoping their own feelings will change, but after 24 hours they haven't changed their mind so they will send the text.

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    Default Re: Why do rejection messages come after 24 hours?

    I think it's just coincidence. It generally doesn't take a long time to figure out whether you like someone or not. The case of the 24 hours is probably because she is going through partial rejection. She is not sure of whether she should just get rid of you, or if she should give you another chance. In those cases, she decided to just move on from you.

    The reason why they are turning you down after the dates is because you're doing something wrong during the in-person interaction. I'm not sure if it's rapport, attraction, what you're saying, how you're reacting to her, and so on, but either way there's a problem. I would recommend doing some research on the forums, find some books recommended by the puas, and do some reading.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X

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    Default Re: Why do rejection messages come after 24 hours?

    Quote Originally Posted by aussiearef View Post
    "I would love to meet you again" or something along those lines..
    Next time try saying this:

    " Hey , if you behave the next few days I may just let you hang out with me again "

    See how much more alpha it sounds?

    Look at how less needy you look?

    You will ALLOW her to hang with you. You aren't asking for her permission to go on a date with her.


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