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    Default What do you do when she comes back?

    Alright fellas, this HB9 and I were talking/flirting back and forth for about a week and planned to meet up, but she ended up showing some cold signs and I didn't press the issue. After that we didn't really talk and I never asked her out again (focused on a different girl).

    That was a month ago, since then we haven't talked until this morning when she snap chatted me (bitches love snap chat) with a smile and a caption that said "Hiiii". SO my question is, since she ignored my last two attempts at communication over a month ago, should I ignore her and strike up a conversation at a later date, or do I snap her back?

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    Default Re: What do you do when she comes back?

    I've dealt with this before, and here's what I can tell you: unless it's text, it really doesn't mean anything in most cases. I almost never use my Snapchat anymore because all people use it for is to spam others about what they are doing. There is a slim chance that this isn't the case, but if you do respond to her snap, she won't reply back, or the interaction won't go on for very long.

    Everything I have said above has been geared toward the likelihood that a Snapchat pickup can happen, but it isn't likely. I personally wouldn't reply. If she does end up sending you a text message, then just spit some text game and get that ball rolling.
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    Default Re: What do you do when she comes back?

    Well said and I agree. I'll just ignore her, she'll probably like that more anyway haha.

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    Default Re: What do you do when she comes back?

    I agree with Swagman, and would also like to add this, after couple of girls have gone cold and came back to me, I noticed that the more I try to re-game them, we end up in the same cold place we were before she reopened me. So after frustrating white night in attempt to find a pattern, I believe Batman pour knowledge on me, on the fact that if she come back, it's better to let her game you and just follow her lead and don't try to take that away from her. Match her excitement and energy level, drop few teases but don't take the game over.

    For example in your case she hit you up with tha "hi", but like Swagman said it doesn't really much, as she might have been on that and just happen to stumble upon you. Compare to texting where you literally have to think of that person and dial thier number to hit them up.

    I would say ignore it, way for her to re-open you, best via text (best). And then match her energy level.

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