Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.
Amen on what Batman said. I actually like to think about the negatives of my game, because when I think about those I work to improve them. Of course I don't leave other things out of the picture, but the whole point of everything is constant forward momentum. I may be a great pua now, but I still like to believe that I have a lot of room for growth.
Perfection is a boring concept. Once you get to it, what else is there? You know you are at your peak, you know everything about your game, and there are no more interesting things to learn and grow in. Things become boring, and you lose interest in the game quickly. That is why I hate the concept of perfection and I strive to get near it, but not become it.
Sometimes, as T-Mal once taught me a long while back, you just have to own up to your mistakes. You can't avoid them or play some sort of PUA trick around them. That just won't get you anywhere, and it may even make her more upset than she would already be. Just being a man, admitting your fault, and then moving on from the issue is probably one of the greatest things any person of true virtue would do.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X