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    Default I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    There's this girl who flirts with me a lot, touching me, smiling at everything I say to her, the whole 9 yards. Problem is, yesterday she asked me what I do in my spare time. So I told her "go to the movies, read,etc". She then asked me who would I go to the movies with and as a kneejerk reaction, I tell her "with my gf". Then she replies "thanks for telling me, but I asked when was the last time you went?" while laughing.

    So basically, I told this girl that I have a girlfriend and I may have messed everything up because she might start distancing herself from me because of that. I have her number, but I wouldn't know what to say to her if I called anyway. Should I continue to flirt with her or just let it go?

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    Hold on, so do you actually have a girlfriend?
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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    Quote Originally Posted by Swagman View Post
    Hold on, so do you actually have a girlfriend?
    Not anymore, I'm just used to telling girls that since they asked me a lot back when I did have one. It's weird I know. I'm a very nervous person, so sometimes I tend to quickly blurt out things I don't mean.

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    Yea you need to straighten that out. I would try the honest route and just tell her what you just told us. It may sound a bit cliche but I don't think there's a clever way around it. Just make sure that you don't stay on the topic too long. Just enough to clear the ground.
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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    That's the first thing I thought of, but then I realized that it might make it look like I'm trying to get her approval or something.

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    That's why I say to change the subject after you had your say. If you stay on it too long it actually will start to look like you're seeking approval. Just state the facts and change the subject. It'll show that you can let it go like it never happened.
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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    Ok, cool. Should I talk to her about it over the phone, or wait until the next time I see her, which is Tuesday?

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    call her run game ask her out for a walk kiss her at least.she likes you.focus on running game more

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    you probably said you have a gf to add value to yourself and make her jealous.

    Theres always a way around these situations, text her and tell her about certain things your so called girlfriend does to annoy you. Youll pretty much be qualifying her by viewing her responses and shell think she has a chance to win you over.

    Either that or she doesnt wanna be a homewrecker...hopefu lly shes a bitch for your sake.
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: I told a girl I'm in a relationship.

    Jafari you can't be serious. Don't instigate the idea of covering one lie with more. It'll make things way too complicated than they need to be. And for what? To avoid telling the truth? It's not even a big deal. And we should focus on guys being genuine. Because all the best pickup artists believe what they say and don't say boldface lies.

    Yea call her up and tell her. When learning game don't even try to be perfect and not make a mistake. It's going to happen regardless how prepared you get. I've been doing this for 4 years and still make mistakes. What matters is what you do once it's made. Do you kiss her ass and try to pick up the pieces or shrug your shoulders and say "Yep. I'm human. Let's go grab a bite."

    P.S. Jealousy plots depend on the girl your dealing with, how she normally responds to jealousy, and how invested she is in you. Too much of a risk for this situation and for such a delicate technique.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."


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