I am not sure if this thread is the right place to post this message so apologies if it's not.
As I said before I am getting better and better in Day Game so that my approach anxiety is zero and I can 2-3 numbers of every 10 approaches. That said my massive sticking point is the first date. I have been on many dates but I have not managed to get a second one.
I met a guy who has a PUA Training company in Sydney and he said he could fix it for me. Then he told me that on every first date I have to tho these things:
1- Pick a location that I am comfortable with (e.g. I know the area).
2- Give a warm welcome such as hugging when I meet the girl and say "good to see you".
3- Five to 10 minutes small talks about her day and work etc.
4- 30 minutes talk about various subjects such as travel, passions, hobbies, etc.
5- 15 minutes romantic talk such as "what type of guy do you like".
6- Give another hug and good bye!
Well I think this sounds very boring and is actually what every guy does. If a girl is chased by several guys I need to stand out somehow.
Yesterday I tried this blueprint on a girl and I just landed in her friend zone very smoothly!! Before this I used to do some palm reading or I played some fun games to create connection with her and the result was slightly better. But the guy told me that I had to keep them for the second date.
Can you please tell me what do you think of this? Is doing palm reading or playing games good or bad? How can I seduce a girl on the first date? I mean I don't want to take her to bed but I want her to think of me as a potential partner and comes for more dates.
Please help guys this is a big sticking point for me