Re: When should I re-initiate with a girl who's losing attraction?
Ah that's a bummer. Can't tell you how many times that's happened with me.
This is just speculation, but from an experienced perspective. So bear with me.
You sexually solved yourself to her. Meaning that she knows you want, and are ready, for sex. And that it's up to her now if she wants to take it to the next level. Not such a bad thing if you both want the same thing. But bad if she feels that having sex with you may make her feel slutty or something.
She may have gotten a bit freaked out by the whole thing and is just nervous about having sex. Your main focus should be comfort more than attraction. Get to know her and let her know that she is special to you and not just another piece of ass. Cliché I know, but true.
Make sure that you wait for a few conversations before sending out another invite. She can't feel that the only reason you talk to her is to lead the convo into you asking her to meet up (for sex essentially since you solved yourself to her). So be cool and just have normal convos. End them first. And after a couple of them, then suggest that you meet up again somewhere public. Find something fun YOU want to do and invite her along.
"All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."