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Thread: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    Apart from the above pointer i kinda agreed.
    @meteora i know you believe in abundance.
    @hyp houdini huh i was thought of starting a thread to call out it has been many years but then..
    @swag there were just a few loopholes that all.

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    I don't think you understand what I meant when I said that, I meant that men who obsess over that one girl across the room, who want a magic solution to get her are just plain pathetic.
    if people don't know any better how can you blame them :P just be harsh it's only fair

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    good posts... some people get so tunnel visioned that although they are seeking advice they won't listen. I have made the same mistakes and realize that now but with the help of this great forum and the veterans it allows me to pull myself back and realize no woman is worth putting her on a pedestal since that just looses the attraction. With the help of this forum I have many in my pocket and 1 that is crazy about me that is always hot and ready every time we are together but I am the one in control and tease her all the time. I do feel myself sometimes investing too much going back to old habits. This is the difference now I am more self aware where I am investing to much and then pull back a little so that she is chasing me more....... to the guys out there that wonder if all this stuff works,,,hell ya it does. The self confidence ,the teasing , the acting like you don't give a shit attitude makes a woman crazy but you have to come from the point of view you don't care about her and don't change this much in a relationship. Now I see her asking me all the questions that I use to ask women....I am on the other side of the relationship. It is true the one the cares less in the relationship is the one that is in control , remember that. Me and this woman are not in a relationship no more , she is my ex.... we are great friends now and still do things sometimes. You know when your ex still tells you that you gave her the best sex of her life and asks you to be her lover forever you did something right hahaha.. damn the sex is great with her.. always crazy together.
    remember keep an open mind and listen to the veterans. It many not work out with the woman you want but there are many more in the world. Sometimes things are just not meant to be so move on.

    just want to say thanks again to all the awesome veterans !!!

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    Good posts......It's early after a divorce and it hurts me for my 2 year old son. I would rather be in anybody else's shoes. But every little bit helps.

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    I agree with what your saying, I personally post a lot of questions on the forums but I personally think that that you should at least try and give the same amount that you take. I have posted a couple of replies to things I know but I hope other people will do the same.I have started this PUA thing since the start of the year and its been a rocky road. I honestly I only gotten a little far with one HB and the rest I was all rejected. Frequent flyers need to know that this is a very painful game at the start. But you need to understand that in order for you to become a master. You need to sacerfise and teach.
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    great points all around, I was wondering about the rash of oneitis going around, then you rarely see much of them after the initial post. maybe PU is the end all be all for some of these guys.
    You can't miss something you've never had, but I can be sure she will regret her opportunity...

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    I think a lot of it has to do with Swagman people don't take this thing seriously enough. I mean for instance why many people who say they want to lose weight, lose weight and never go to the Gym to do anything but expect a product "magic pill" to fix things for them. Also why many people who don't see results right away often give up. I think it is because they don't get the answer they want or the results they want that people give up so easily and are not willing to put in the work.

    Like a skinny guy that quit the Gym at my local Gym likely due to not seeing immediate results. Like the reason why many people in Pick Up likely quit for not seeing immediate results. Like me for instance I have been going to the Gym for 8 months and going to be a lifer and even though I still am very far off from where I want to be I am not going to up and quit. I just barely even get a few days in on the Gym since I am working 65 hours a week. But then I am not getting the results either on Pick Up because my numbers are 100 approaches, 30 Numbers, 4 K-closes, 1 GF, and 0 F-closes. Normally most people getting into it want immediate success like f-closes off the bat and the validation through the roof and would give up with the numbers like I have because they want a "guaranteed" method or a fix to the problem. And when they find it is hard work many people give up as "it doesn't work". But it does work and it will work even better when I get better and when I want more out of it.

    So my theory is people want a quick fix but there isn't always one. I mean there is such a thing as beginner's luck but I never really wanted an f-close yet so I guess that was never my goal. My goal was a GF and I got one so my next goal is a Sugar Momma. I think if people had goals they might stick with it longer but often times young guys are short-sighted and want "that one girl" or "that one method" that they give up if it doesn't work the way they want and feel like it is just a gimmick. Pick Up is like anything in life. Go to the Gym get results, I gained 20 lbs of Muscle and not super ripped but I got something. Started Pick Up and got 30 numbers and 1 GF and may not have been the GF I wanted but I got something.
    101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    My thoughts exactly. Since I'm in high school I only done like 15 approaches and got 13 numbers and nothing else. But in this life I'm honestly looking for the hardest way out. For my university degree I need to get at least a 80 in AP and then I gotta take university for 6 years and maybe more. I believe the tough way out is the best way out. (I wasn't like this before)
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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    Most people still come because of that one ..etc

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    Default Re: Disclaimer: Don't Expect the Answer that You Want

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    My thoughts exactly. Since I'm in high school I only done like 15 approaches and got 13 numbers and nothing else. But in this life I'm honestly looking for the hardest way out. For my university degree I need to get at least a 80 in AP and then I gotta take university for 6 years and maybe more. I believe the tough way out is the best way out. (I wasn't like this before)
    Amen, it's usually through the hardest and most difficult of situations that I have actually learned the most. It always seems to be the case with most people, mainly because it calls within us everything that we have and more in order to achieve and learn those things which we may have not before in a typically normal situation.
    "There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X


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