Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman
I've had that sort of experience before. I meet girls all the time who are not within my physical qualifications, but their inner qualifications are top notch. With these kind of girls, you have to make a tough decision. You need to decide if the physical traits are bad enough to where you can't stand them if you were to do things with her. If they aren't that bad, then go for it.
There is a ginger at my college with absolutely beautiful hair, right up my alley for requirements. However, her eyebrows are bright orange, so they're almost not there, and when she doesn't smile she looks creepy. Her personality is right up my alley, but I just can't stand it when a girl has weird looking eyebrows like that. Thus, I decided that she was a no-go.
"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time." - Malcolm X