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    Default Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    As I mentioned in my intro post, I had moderate success with woman in the past. Tbh, I had set my sights low and went for the type woman who wasn't the best looker or had the best figure but loved the attention any guy would give her as well as the hard looking/rough woman. I appreciate I was setting my sights too low but it was fun and there was some great sex. With these types of woman, I had the comfort of having meet them in pubs/clubs and if I lost interest, I didn't need to see them again or make excuses so that they eventually got the message. However, there is a woman in at my work who is quite hard looking/rough but she is just out of a very long-term relationship and is just looking for fun. She's spoken to me a few times in work situations/vending machines but I've not pursued it any further because I am a bit scared I will get nothing but grief (I only know her to look at and don't know her so I'm not sure if this is me being paranoid due to being out of the pick-up game for so long). Okay, I do need to set my sights higher to more decent woman but in the meantime, should I have fun with this woman?

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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    Play it slow at work. I mean don't do anything you couldn't reasonably explain.

    But beyond that, yes play. If you enjoy 5s and 6s by all means keep yourself occupied with them and start hitting on higher girls too
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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    If I understand you correctly Red Barron, I probably need to explain my original post more clearly. A while back, I was on a secondment to her team and a male colleague was playfully joking with her about her social life which she did admit she likes a good time. I didn't bother picking up on this at the time but lately I have to admit even though she isn't all that good looking, I find her don't-give-a-damn confidence quite attractive. Don't get me wrong, I can handle myself but I wouldn't try anything on as I wouldn't want to get on the wrong side of her so I wouldn't do anything stupid. I don't know if she is a female PUA/player herself but would like to find out and possibly have fun until I meet a higher girl. I was just posting just in case anybody had a similar experience and had any advice.

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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    I've had that sort of experience before. I meet girls all the time who are not within my physical qualifications, but their inner qualifications are top notch. With these kind of girls, you have to make a tough decision. You need to decide if the physical traits are bad enough to where you can't stand them if you were to do things with her. If they aren't that bad, then go for it.

    There is a ginger at my college with absolutely beautiful hair, right up my alley for requirements. However, her eyebrows are bright orange, so they're almost not there, and when she doesn't smile she looks creepy. Her personality is right up my alley, but I just can't stand it when a girl has weird looking eyebrows like that. Thus, I decided that she was a no-go.
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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    How to avoid her bad side is more than I can answer in a post. But I've dated several coworkers, even 3 In one office. If you know what you're doing, you're fine. Just don't be an a hole
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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    Thanks for replies guys. Tbh, I missed the chance with that woman although there could be future water cooler moments or chances to talk to her in a professional basis where I can take it further and see what happens. Thinking about it, the reason that I had posted this was that I had stupidly made this rule about not mixing business with pleasure by getting involved with woman in at work. I've read on another forum about having a social personality and your normal personality. I wouldn't say that my personality is different between the two situations apart from when it comes to woman where I have separated the two. I do need to change this and why shouldn't have have some fun in at work especially as you say Red Baron that you have dated several co-workers at the same time. Obviously I'll need to take it slow at first until I get up and running with this particular strategy

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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    Just to clarify - Not at the same time they were consecutive. Even I have a rule, only one person per office/social group at a time :-)
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    Default Re: Picking up the hard looking/rough woman

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    Just to clarify - Not at the same time they were consecutive. Even I have a rule, only one person per office/social group at a time :-)
    I'm been thinking about how I would go about trying to pick-up in a work environment.I've realised I will need to go about it a different way and be more careful than you would in a pub or club so I think just one woman at a time is the best option!


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