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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Oh okay i got you. i'll post another update soon to let you know how its going. this is tough man. i've never been in anything like this before. If she was single all of this would be soooo much easier. did i mention she is graduated and going to college in december and hes a senior in highschool this year. After he graduates hes moving two states away. Her school will only be about 30 minutes away from me so no big deal.

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    !UPDATE! At work she asked me if i wanted to go to her place and watch movies some time. i said yes. the previous day we didn't text at all so that could have made her make her move. However she still has a boyfriend and i dont know how i should go about this.

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Thats a tough predicament, building her attraction towards you isn't gonna happen in a night though, well it can depending on how good you're game is (your confidence level).

    You could text her and say you cant make it to watch the movie but make sure to postpone a future date. This technique, in my opinion would favor someone who's on the inexperienced side.

    I recommend you go forth with your plans but with the mindset of "im gonna watch a movie and this girls gonna be there". Dont worry about winning her over during the date because if you do it will leak through your body language and could make things awkward. Seems like yall are just friends for the time being so treat her like a friend, yes guys can friendzone girls too. I would escalate slowly using kino by sitting next to her and having your upper arms touch and you can go from there how you please.

    There's a saying about how people in love are also best friends, use this to approach the date with a positive mindset. Good luck!
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    After thinking about it you're right! What i'll do is go there as a friend going to watch a movie and try to throw in some flirting and very small kino. do you think this could be a test to see my boyfriend potential? I'm all new to this i've never had a situation where i was after a girl with a boyfriend. i want to prove to her im the better option instead of forcing them to break up if that makes sense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iamchance View Post
    After thinking about it you're right! What i'll do is go there as a friend going to watch a movie and try to throw in some flirting and very small kino. do you think this could be a test to see my boyfriend potential? I'm all new to this i've never had a situation where i was after a girl with a boyfriend. i want to prove to her im the better option instead of forcing them to break up if that makes sense.
    of course, everything's a test. I dunno man the best way in my opinion to prove your the better option is by NOT trying to prove your the better option if you know what i mean. just remember, this is your world and she's just a squirrel.
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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    thanks man. i'll also mention i'm 22 she's 18 and graduated and he's 17 and in his senior of highschool coming up. if that has any effect on my situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iamchance View Post
    thanks man. i'll also mention i'm 22 she's 18 and graduated and he's 17 and in his senior of highschool coming up. if that has any effect on my situation.
    That has a HUGE effect on the situation my dude. Think about it youre 22 and youre competing with a 17 year old, id say the favor is on your side. believe it or not you have a lot of leverage, you can use your time in high school in a conversation to relate with her...talk about how you hated curfew or that sick party you went to.

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Well last night i said i was free wednesday. she said ok. so i texted her if she was free aswell and she hasnt responded but has been online on facebook. hasn't texted me back is this a sh!t test?

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Quote Originally Posted by The Red Baron View Post
    9 hours.... I go 9 hours without texting my girlfriend I've been with for months.
    I want to echo what RB said. My text game is sporadic. Some times it's within 3 minutes - 40 minutes, or some times is a few text real quick (rapid fire texting) , for 85% of the day though, I'm busy. Therefor, it may take me 6 hours (give or take) before I text a girl back.

    I'm also going to note, if you're not going to be busy that day, at least make it appear to her that you are

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    Quote Originally Posted by iamchance View Post
    Well last night i said i was free wednesday. she said ok. so i texted her if she was free aswell and she hasnt responded but has been online on facebook. hasn't texted me back is this a sh!t test?
    So you didn't watch the movie with her? She's could be trying to make you worry cause you flaked. Either way if you've got her testing you it's a good sign she's leaning slowly towards you.
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