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    Default Did she friend zone me???

    This girl at work i started talking to. she asked for my number and i gave it to her. She has a boyfriend that i found out about on my own she never told me. two months later we have texted everyday. i fear i have become friend zoned. as a test i posted on facebook about all the beautiful women around campus. SHE LIKED THE STATUS. is this a sure fire indicator of friendzone? should i freezeout ? She doesnt go to my college. if i am friend zoned i need out fast. keep in mind ive tried asking her out while she has a boyfriend....yes i know thats slimy to which she hasnt said no but has changed the conversation. shes not a slut.

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    It's not 100% friend zone.

    You avoid friend zone by being confident, alpha, flirty, and by not just being her guy to bitch to. Don't send her those crap texts, "hi how are you," etc. That will put you in friend zone.

    You want out of friend zone? Here's my advice.

    http://www.puaforums.com/how-pick-up...iend-zone.html

    As far as the boyfriend, PUA's have a general moral code. But there's nothing wrong with being fun, confident, flirty, and interesting until she decides that she'd rather be with you than her boyfriend. Just, try to make sure it's her decision and you don't pressure her in to something she'd regret - that would be slimy, but there's nothing wrong with being the better option.
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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    That's actually what im trying to do. is be the better option. i think in the process ive gaind so much of her trust and rapport that im on the edge of friend zone. So do you think Freeze out is my best option at the moment? if so how long?

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Don't freeze her out.

    You can withdraw a little bit. Really, you want to give her the gift of missing you.

    I don't know how great your text game is, but make her wait once and a while, like you're just busy, but get back to her later. Pretend it's normal, don't make excuses, just reply later as though you just saw it.

    Don't "avoid" her, but don't go out of your way to see her. And when she does push to see you or comes to find you or whatever, make sure you're fun and interesting and confident, kino, play, show her you're happy to see her.

    This is to create some mixed signals, make her love it when she sees you, and make her wonder when she doesn't. Like if you wait a few hours on random texts, she'll be thinking about you- that's good.
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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    I've been stressing about this for awhile and joining this forum has helped me. Thanks a ton for the advice! i think what i did wrong in the beginning is i put her on a pedestal and made her feel too comfortable too fast. im going to back off that now. i do know that since i posted that status she hasn't texted me in 9 hours which is a little unusual.

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    9 hours.... I go 9 hours without texting my girlfriend I've been with for months

    You want to appear unaffected, so don't let it get to you, and definitely don't show it if it does.
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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Wanted to give you a little update. What ive started doing is backing off I.E no more morning text, no more initiating, no more carrying the conversation. i've also started making it so she is the last one to text. over the last two days she has initiated text and ive gone with it. i'm thinking about doing a 1 or 2 day freeze out. we've been talking everyday for 2 months i want her to see what its like without me texting her but i'm keeping the freezeout short just to see where i stand. what is you're opinion on this? and any additional tips or advice?

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    I don't like the idea of an official freeze out

    In reality, you don't have to respond to every text. Just, ignore one or two, you were too busy and forgot to respond later, no biggie
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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    the vibe i get from you is to wait there relationhip out. stay close but dont be there every time she text me. any advice on what to do while texting to kind of get her to "miss me" like you previously said?

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    Default Re: Did she friend zone me???

    Wait their relationship out is not quite what I mean.

    Just don't go full freeze out. Like, don't respond to non interesting texts, but you can maybe engage later if she texts again or something. But if she doesn't, by all means wait a day or two

    Freeze out is just a little too obvious you're ignoring, you don't want it to be obvious

    And I'm not particularly a text guru, Just try to make your texts interesting, don't be bland. We want her to be happy when you do respond so she continues to crave the attention
    Just like we wan her to be glad to see you and look forward to it when you don't

    Inconsistency is kinda the key here
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