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    Cool Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    I like this girl and she has just broken up with her bf, I'm certain she is attracted to me because she flirts with me and always likes my stuff on fb. She asked me in chat that I should "meet the bf because I'm still not sure weather he's using me or not", and this was a few days after I was introduced to her and now 3 weeks later she's broken up with him. She also asked me out of "curiosity" what was going on between me and her friend, but I had a feeling she was secretly asking for herself..



    I'm not in the friendzone at all, I just want advice on how to play my cards right and get her number and take it from there? What should I say/do to get me the best results??


    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    if you are going to be seeing her no need to shoot for the number yet but anytime you are in person push the interaction as far as possible.

    once you notice she touches her hair, laughs at your jokes ,think ioi then say something along the lines of: you got to get back to what you were doing how would you call her.if she senses attraction and was giving you indicators of interest and you frame it like this she would even be expecting it.
    when you get her number then you may blog about it here.in the conversation throw dhvs like how you love having fun and experiencing new things.etc

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Ok man so I got the number.. Here's how the Convo went down:

    Me: hey hey, how's things?X

    Her: YOU NEEDED TO MEET THE BF,you could have done your 6th sense thing and told me he was cheating !Hahaha I would have loved you (did a cold reading before so she thinks I'm psychic lol)

    Me: please, you already love me ( notice how I change subject to move away from her stupid boyfriend she just broke up with)

    Her: you wish jellyfish, hahaha what you been up to?

    Me: I have a funny story to tell (told her a really funny story aimed to show my humor through DHV)

    Her: HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH HAHAHAHAHA OMG, I don't know who he is but tell him he is a legend and I love him

    Me: lol it was hilarious! Good 21st story

    Her:Hahahahah Im trying to think of a good story but nothing beats that

    Me: you got NUN (inside joke call her a nun cause she's a good little church girl lol), get it?

    Her: your hilarious...

    Me:I think you dropped your sense of humor

    Her:give me a second to think of a funny story, STOP PRESSURING ME

    Me: your so gay hahah, let me see this cute attempt at a story.

    Her: OMG I have actually got nothing, this has never happened before,

    Me: I like storytelling

    Her: *post up a stupid photo** I don't know I've had a sh1t week got no stories 😞

    Me: oh.... That's all you got...

    Me: JKS hahahahahaha that's funny as!

    Her: *posts another thing**

    Me: OI seriously stop lol I laugh at everything haha you could say potatoes and ill laugh

    Her: OMG HAVE YOU HEARD THE POTATOES SONG

    me:no hahahaha

    Her: omg you have not lived

    Me: coming from the nun Locked in the monastery

    Her:HAHAHA I am not, oi what are you doing tomorrow night? (Surprisingly she beat me too it, she said this 5 seconds before I posted for her didgits lol)

    Me:Oi i gotta go but you should give me your number so i can help break you out of the monastery....And ofcourse get to know you better 😊I enjoy talking to you we have good energy.

    Her: HAHAHA (gives number), If your free tomorrow night come out don't know where yet but ill let you know 😊

    Me: Ive got a surprise party for my friend, But ill get in contact and well deffs do something 😊u take care (gave her my number)

    Her:You too 😊 night x


    I just met this girl a couple weeks back, this is the 3rd time I've spoken to her. I'm abit suspicious on being the rebound guy, but I'm not sure. She told me before I should meet her bf bc she's not sure he's using her and now he ended up cheating on her, but why would she say THT to a guy she's just met about her bf??


    I hope I'm
    Not the rebound I really dig this girl, lets hear the feedback fellow pua's

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Solid work, dude. 3 days in and she wants it. Only advice I could give is to make sure things don't go too fast. If you rush it, you'll become the rebound.

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Yep you sure sound interested in her.thats what happens when you look for ioi and move things forward..even though sometimes dynamics vary.take it slow here.your next step is to at least kiss her which i know you wont let of.let things develop as stated.personally i would keep it casual.keep being the attractive guy in her life.

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Thanks guys, how can I ensure that I'm not the rebound, what do I say / do

    I mean, by cheating on her the ex bf has pretty much done my job for me by ensuring I won't be a rebound right? Cause if she goes back to him after he cheated she's dumb

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Well it depends keep being the attractive guy in her life.don't try to push forward too soon in terms of classifying relationship.keep it light.escalate!be safe..the guy building and amping the attraction is authority sort of you loose that role when you go the opposite.knoe you won't

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    Guys to be honest, I have her number, but I'm gonna take this one really slow. Not gonna call/ text to hang out, I'm gonna wait for a few weeks until I can tell if she's over her bf. but in the meantime I'm still gonna speak to her and keep her interested to make good grounds for when we finally do hang out.

    I can't deal with being a rebound, if I am one, so I'm gonna play it safe cause I like this girl

    I'm going to wait abit until I'm sure she's over her bf and I get more IOI's then ill move in and elevate my game

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    What role do you want to be in this girl's life, lover or boyfriend?

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    Default Re: Help with girl I like who has just broken up with bf?

    I would like to be this girls boyfriend, not a lover


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