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Thread: How to react if the HB is rude?

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    Default How to react if the HB is rude?

    Hi guys

    How would you react if a HB was rude to you? I approached a HB9 today and she said "I am not interested in YOU". And I said "Met too, little brat!".

    Then I thought maybe I took it too personally and was kind of too rude. But from the other side I cannot cope with rude behavior. How would you react in a similar situation?

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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    Hey aussieref,

    There are gonna be girls that will be receptive to you and there will be girls that are unreceptive. no biggie, it's just statistics at play.

    You need to be nonreactive regardless. this is key. Being reactive conveys a very low masculine trait.

    You could've tried to carry the interaction a little further. Say something that created an "us" type of vibe. Best way to do this is make an observation about your surrounding. Say, "but sweetie, you're the only other person I've met all night who appreciates the music here. How can you say that? We should talk BECAUSE the music is so good."

    Use the word because as it creates a false reason to talk. She may just blow you off but hey who cares.

    rs5096

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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    Use the exact same line rs5096 used in his reply, but with a twist:

    "I understand some girls will be receptive and other won't, that's just statistics at play and nothing personal, but that was just plain rude...."

    Now the way I see this, you can either follow this with your most solid and consistent opinion opener and hook her (if you wish to pursue). Or just eject yourself like a boss.

    With this one, even if she was trying to shine in front of her friends, they all will agree with you that in fact it was rude and she will end up looking bad, and you unaffected.

    Good luck.
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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    i woulda said "that was rude" using my deep, calm and convicting voice.
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    I probably would've gone with what JafariFTW said but with a smile. I also do not tolerate rudeness and I'm not really worried about it. I make sure to leave the conversation on top, however. For example, I'll smile and start laughing, then say something that completely throws the girl off. Then I'll tell her to have an awesome night, and I'll immediately open another set. Sometimes though you have to be careful because there are an abundance of sh1t test and bitch shields. It's possible that your approach had issues; HB9s and 10s require that you come in under the radar to be different from all the hopeless AFCs throwing drinks and compliments at her. If she is with a group, I would open the group indirectly, toss a neg at her while giving them most of the attention.

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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    I would act very surprised and mumble something like, " so Rude!" to myself and act like this has never happened.

    If she was rude in my space to me or my friends, like at my party or my house. I would ask her kindly to leave and softly say you dont tolerate that sort of behavior from anyone and that you did not expect a women of her stature to be so rude.

    Doesn't really happen to me but I have seen it, and I do know this, I never want to be with anyone like this.

    I will never be rude to her though, just firm in what i believe.

    Regards

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    Default Re: How to react if the HB is rude?

    I read this on these forums and I like it.

    You can take a long pause (this silence will make her feel very uncomfortable) and then ask

    "are you always this rude to friendly people?"
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