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    Default Unfamiliar situation

    Hey guys, it's not often I come here asking for help, yet I find myself in an unfamiliar situation and was looking for some experienced advice.
    There was this girl a went to school with, a year older than me. She is 9/10 and I've given myself the challenge to 'pull her' so to speak over the summer just to fill my
    Time. However I have never spoken to her but we both know who each other are, so it's not as simple as starting a conversation with an ordinary opener I'd use for a stranger, I need something more specific to my situation, and it will most likely have to be over Facebook as I don't see we out often enough to wait for that. Any ideas?

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    Default Re: Unfamiliar situation

    I think just start a normal convo and build from there. One of the keys to building rapport is just assume rapport.

    Say something like, "Hey, miss. How are you?" See how she responds and build on that.

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    Default Re: Unfamiliar situation

    If you wanted to go with rs5096's opener, I would change it to How have you been? Because then at least you're assuming some rapport. In a situation like this I'd just be honest: Ya know, I remember you from school, but I don't think we got around to talking much. How have you been? That said I don't see the harm in using an indirect opinion opener after she replies with "good, you?"


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