Hello, I'm Ace, I've been into PUA for sometime, a friend of mine introduced me. gained interest immediately started reading the game, wathed the DVD Series online... I love Neil, Mystery and Hypnotica.
anyways this is kind of a detailed story so stick with me. Ive known this girl, 7 years now... fell for her the second I met her I still remember it. I have knowledge and blame me for friend-zoning myself. I messed up... ALOT I don't blame her, but for the first 6 of these 7 years she did not have a clue, to be honest she probably didn't know I existed.
Last summer something small hit off... we ended up hanging out but we both showed to the wrong place during this time I felt that " Vibe switch" she gained interest in me for the first time... held onto my arm... bigger hugs long conversation and laughed alot we started hanging out... kissed once and for her it kind of tapered off and I made some aggressive " Attack mode " Mistakes and she ended up with a new boyfriend for a while...but still kept in touch anyway. this leads up to a few months ago.
at this point, months of PUA has been studied in field and on paper and videos, Im notting a huge difference in her reactions to me, compared to before. Its getting to a point because of friendship as well that emotions consistently run high with both of us theres deep conversations alot of trust and a last month I asked her on a date and she said, " she just cant " this Devastated me but I kept my chin up and kept her having fun anyways... but I note I AM NOTTTT Playing Therapist for her.
this ends up going into last week where she started txting me quite a bit, after a night I showed up randomly to her house and we just hungout... it ended up being for hours we really enjoyed ourselves. after which we ended up txting each-other quite a bit, I kept it short and sweet and out of no where... SHE INVITES ME... out to drinks bowling and dinner for a night. this past friday night was supposed to be that night but I had to cancel due to a passing of a friend, she easily understood.
this part gets a little intense... last night she was at the party I was at we left and ended up going for a goof 45 min walk just around the neighborhood together...I had said something sweet in the moment and she grabbed me, gave me a huge hug squeezed very tight and wouldn't let go... told me I gave her goose bumps. I put my hand on the side of her face swiped the hair and went in slowly for a kiss I saw her think about it for that half a second, then turn away, grabbed my hands hugged me even tighter and we continued walking and talking. It stung but I brushed it off. On the walk back to the party right before we got there I said in confidence, so this is date one, lets reschedule friday for date 2 ( THIS IS AFTER THE KISS REJECTION ) she said yes !!!!!
we then hungout the rest of the night she sat next to me stayed close laughed alot and then we went out for late night ice cream and a burger around 2:30 in the morning at a place close to my house after cabbing there. she then came back to my place we sat in the back yard listened to music on her phone and after about 20 mins or so she laid with me for the next hour holding my arm, just talking and looking up at the sky then had to leave... I was a Nerves WRECK because this came out of no where but I didn't show it and I wasnt about to go for the kiss again and blow it.
Sorry for the long story guys but I wanted to be descriptive as possible to get the most help... next Friday or Saturday night this next date should be happening and keep in mind this date was HER INVITE. Im taking all PUA Advice... tips ... pointers. I think Ill shoot myself if I blow this guys. I cant attack it... I wont bring it up... I wont pressure it... and im trying to keep it fun at all costs through txt msgs calls or any meetings between the 2 of us. I got a week and I need to play my cards right here.