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Thread: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback please

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    Default okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback please

    okay so as i figured out from experiance there is 2 ways out from the friendzone, the problem is i dont know which one is more effective than the other. i will tell u and explain what the 2 ways are. ( from my experiance and from my point of view. could be other ways)

    Way number 1. this " technique " im trying at the moment i call " ive got friends not looking for more so fck off ". alright as u can hear its pretty much u tell straight up to the girl if she LJBF's u that " ive already have friends, im not looking for more so fuck off " direct or indirect, this time i went for pretty direkt. mabye this takes some push n pull, when u actually gonna talk to her afterwards try kiss her or touch her like she is already ur girlfriend! but we'll see.

    me:you should tell ur guy problems to a friend i dont really wanna listen
    she: what an attitude! i thought we were friends...

    me: ive got friends, im not really looking for more

    ( this is sorta direct anyways just that i didnt put in the " so fuck off " i dont do this cause thats just rough u dont really want her to fuck off from ur life do you ?)

    she: oh, thats an attitude! okay i'll be quiet for now

    me: you want the truth or lies?

    she: thruth of course but i'll shut up now

    me: haha okay bye


    alright so i just did this so i havent even get " response " yet, but im going to this party next weekend and she's gonna be there, gonna be so much fun, im just gonna be so fucking fun she doesnt even know what hit her. gonna be fun to see if she stills says hi or even look in my eyes in school this week! alright im gonna return feedback with this one in minimum a week,


    way number 2. " the nice way " just be ok with the statement that u are friends but inside ur like fuck dis guuurl. okay so u wrote/talked to this girl what? like twice per day for a long time? just cut that off, make the statement that u are only friends but stop start convos with her, ask her stuff etc etc. and when u meet the next time u will actually try to kiss her. that will say touch her more sexy, more push and pull technique and much kino and see what happens. as i said i havent tried this number 2 technique but from experiance and from reading many of different forums ive seen and heard many times that its one of these. its gonna be fun to find out which one works and which one dont. if even one of them will work i will be happy haha ! okay so give me feedback which one do you think will work? and why ? do u have any experiance from this more then me? give me tips!

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    I don't support what you said. Guy's fail to realize that when a girl opens up to them about their problems it's typically the guys fault. Your responses come off as angry, and will not trigger any sort of switch in her head that says, "oh sh1t, I like this guy now."

    So what do you do? You accept that her opening up to you is your fault, you listen, and you play it from there. You don't get angry, but you start to distance yourself. You start making yourself less available, but when you do talk you FLIRT. You don't want your intentions to come off as direct to her, at least not right away. You want to play to her subconscious mind by kino........... Screw this. I made another post. Imma just copy and paste it in here.

    "Getting out of the Friend Zone is a process. It's typically not something that happens over night. It's a change in attitude over time that allows the woman to start viewing the man in more of a sexual manner instead of just a friend. How is this done?

    Right now, start to distance yourself. Don't answer ever call, don't answer every text, ultimately start to become more mysterious. When you're with her, start making more sexual comments and making sexual innuendo jokes. You want her subconscious mind to start associating you with sex instead of just a friend. Kino her a lot in a playful manner. If you go to a club, dance with her and such.

    Basically, you want to set off all the subconscious Attraction Triggers in her brain that will allow her to perceive you differently. The number one mistake guys make when trying to get of the friend zone is this. These are some wise words I just came up with 30 seconds ago so pay close attention.

    GUYS TRY TO GET OUT OF THE FRIENDZONE BY PLAYING TO THE GIRLS CONSCIOUS MIND. What does that mean? Guys think by just establishing how they feel to the girl will get them out of the friendzone. NOPE. That only works if the girl likes you back. YOU HAVE TO ATTACK HER SUBCONSCIOUS BRAIN THROUGH THINGS LIKE KINO, SEX JOKES/TALK/INNUENDO, AVAILABILITY, AND EVEN Jealousy. This is something that typically can't be done in a night, but how long it takes can have a huge margin ranging from a couple of days to even a couple of months.

    So to conclude, don't give up on her. Just don't focus on her either. Use this as an opportunity to practice getting out of the friendzone, but in the meantime keep talking to other women."

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    I'm not sure your way is effective at all; you are definitely out of her friendship zone, but you're also out of every zone now. It's really a DLV, responding in anger and jealousy. Her telling you about guy problems is a great way to use BF Destroyer, and the subtle techniques of the friend zone destroyer; I would've used a BF destroyer then said I had to go my date had arrived. Something along those lines. At the end of the day, being friends with attractive women is the ultimate DHV and a great way to meet women in itself. I'm just not sure why there is value in flushing a relationship down the toilet because it's not what you want for tonight.

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    Quote Originally Posted by lilsting View Post
    I don't support what you said. Guy's fail to realize that when a girl opens up to them about their problems it's typically the guys fault. Your responses come off as angry, and will not trigger any sort of switch in her head that says, "oh sh1t, I like this guy now."

    So what do you do? You accept that her opening up to you is your fault, you listen, and you play it from there. You don't get angry, but you start to distance yourself. You start making yourself less available, but when you do talk you FLIRT. You don't want your intentions to come off as direct to her, at least not right away. You want to play to her subconscious mind by kino........... Screw this. I made another post. Imma just copy and paste it in here.

    "Getting out of the Friend Zone is a process. It's typically not something that happens over night. It's a change in attitude over time that allows the woman to start viewing the man in more of a sexual manner instead of just a friend. How is this done?

    Right now, start to distance yourself. Don't answer ever call, don't answer every text, ultimately start to become more mysterious. When you're with her, start making more sexual comments and making sexual innuendo jokes. You want her subconscious mind to start associating you with sex instead of just a friend. Kino her a lot in a playful manner. If you go to a club, dance with her and such.

    Basically, you want to set off all the subconscious Attraction Triggers in her brain that will allow her to perceive you differently. The number one mistake guys make when trying to get of the friend zone is this. These are some wise words I just came up with 30 seconds ago so pay close attention.

    GUYS TRY TO GET OUT OF THE FRIENDZONE BY PLAYING TO THE GIRLS CONSCIOUS MIND. What does that mean? Guys think by just establishing how they feel to the girl will get them out of the friendzone. NOPE. That only works if the girl likes you back. YOU HAVE TO ATTACK HER SUBCONSCIOUS BRAIN THROUGH THINGS LIKE KINO, SEX JOKES/TALK/INNUENDO, AVAILABILITY, AND EVEN Jealousy. This is something that typically can't be done in a night, but how long it takes can have a huge margin ranging from a couple of days to even a couple of months.

    So to conclude, don't give up on her. Just don't focus on her either. Use this as an opportunity to practice getting out of the friendzone, but in the meantime keep talking to other women."
    mabye you are right. but i have to disagree some, it feels like people are thinking way to much these days about stuff like this, if she is truley ur friend and u tell her u arent looking for more friend. this sends 2 messages, 1 u arent somewhat a pussy that will be there for her ALL the time, and second that u really got shit to do and that u dont need her friendship. and what i wanna get from this is either she texting or calling me cause if i meant anything to her, she would call me, right? and u dont really DLV urself i think its more DHV cause u know what u want and u dont take no for an answer, if she says no " LJBF " why should u be satisfied with being her friend? besides this women is attracted to men who can say no and doesnt go with the flow all the time like everybody else. but then again u might be right, thats why i wanna test this out and see what happens! hey i cant say im sorry now that will make me look like an complete retard^^! 1 more bad thing i can think of if she tells her friend that im a fucking douche that already have friends and her friends will think im a D-bag without even speaking to me, but then again it can be a positive thing aswell!

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    Erix the way you treated that girl was mean.don't be afraid to have female friends down the line but if you like them and you feel zoned BUILD ATTRACTION more or run game.depending on your level with this girl it may take time as said.the best way in situations like this is to stop seeing her and focus on your game and come back...

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    These guys are right. Saying something like that to a woman is NOT the DHV you think it is. I know that one interpretation is that you are setting your standards and are not taking no for an answer. But there is a hidden weakness in this view of the situation.

    And that is the fact that you are falling into the frame that you are even in the friendzone at all. It's all about your mindset right? If you let her convince you that you are in the friendzone then you will tailor your game to get OUT of the friendzone. This risks needy behavior. You need to act as if you are not in the friendzone at all and just call her bluff.

    The reason why us PUA's can say "ok" with a sly smile after she says we are just friends is cause we GET IT. We understand that she is only saying it cause she needs more attraction from us. It's like she's giving you the blueprint on how to seduce her by saying that you are just friends. It is not weak because we say "ok." It shows social intelligence because we understand her world and the things she has to do to keep creeps away from her.

    There is two types of friendzones. The real and the fake.

    Real Friend Zone: She tells you about other guys. Sets you up with girls or her gfs. Gossips about her deepest secrets. And lets you sleep next to her knowing you won't make a move.

    Fake Friend Zone: You're still on a flirty level and she hasn't done anything in the above example. But nonetheless still says you're friends. This is just a sh1t test that you must pass by acting like she never said it.

    So if you want to walk around telling girls you don't need anymore friends then I commend that because you are being straightforward and honest. But I an bet that you will be going home alone quite often with just your standards to go to bed with you. Hope this helps and good luck.
    "All things are subject to interpretation. Whichever interpretation prevails at a given time is a function of power and not truth."

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    These guys are right. Saying something like that to a woman is NOT the DHV you think it is. I know that one interpretation is that you are setting your standards and are not taking no for an answer. But there is a hidden weakness in this view of the situation.

    And that is the fact that you are falling into the frame that you are even in the friendzone at all. It's all about your mindset right? If you let her convince you that you are in the friendzone then you will tailor your game to get OUT of the friendzone. This risks needy behavior. You need to act as if you are not in the friendzone at all and just call her bluff.

    The reason why us PUA's can say "ok" with a sly smile after she says we are just friends is cause we GET IT. We understand that she is only saying it cause she needs more attraction from us. It's like she's giving you the blueprint on how to seduce her by saying that you are just friends. It is not weak because we say "ok." It shows social intelligence because we understand her world and the things she has to do to keep creeps away from her.

    There is two types of friendzones. The real and the fake.

    Real Friend Zone: She tells you about other guys. Sets you up with girls or her gfs. Gossips about her deepest secrets. And lets you sleep next to her knowing you won't make a move.

    Fake Friend Zone: You're still on a flirty level and she hasn't done anything in the above example. But nonetheless still says you're friends. This is just a sh1t test that you must pass by acting like she never said it.

    So if you want to walk around telling girls you don't need anymore friends then I commend that because you are being straightforward and honest. But I an bet that you will be going home alone quite often with just your standards to go to bed with you. Hope this helps and good luck.
    i dont really know man. there is logic in ur thoughts aswell, i really just wanted to try this out. plus it feels really good that u actually said hell no why give u something when u dont give a shit? im having fun without ur friendship so why would i have it? but in case ur right i made myself look like an complete idiot i can see that. and if that is fixable would be a cool experience too. so much u can do with girls for practise / experiance

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    Quote Originally Posted by Erixzon View Post
    i dont really know man. there is logic in ur thoughts aswell, i really just wanted to try this out. plus it feels really good that u actually said hell no why give u something when u dont give a sh1t? im having fun without ur friendship so why would i have it? but in case ur right i made myself look like an complete idiot i can see that. and if that is fixable would be a cool experience too. so much u can do with girls for practise / experiance
    Remember that women are human beings, not experiments or tools to validate oneself. There isn't a maybe in this equation; it's fairly obvious from the outside that you made a mistake. We all do it, so you'll know what to do for next time. And honestly I'll reiterate that being friends with attractive females takes a lot of the work out of PUA, because they tend to hook you with friends and DHV you when you aren't even around.

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    Default Re: okay so the 2 ways to get out from friendzone trying no1 feedback ple

    You can not shame a girl into fucking you. Remember that. Being a total dick when she knows she has you in the FZ is just you being butthurt, and she knows, it hurts your chances even worse.

    Only one way to get out of there, preselection. Let her see you with other women. Let her know you're fucking other women, better if they're hotter than her.

    But frankly, I find getting out of the friendzone an exercise in futility. If you got in it in the first place, you might as well look for greener pastures elsewhere.

    PS: There is nothing better for getting laid than a hot female friend. I can honestly say she will do more for your efforts to get laid than all your guy friends combined, so yeah, you definitely need more friends.

    I have never understood guys getting butthurt over a friendzone and cutting ties with the girl. There are many more social benefits accruing from having a pretty female friend. She might have cute friends. She'll be your pivot if you go out partying. She might come around later(don't count on it, but it's known to happen). Reducing your social circle over something like this reeks of immaturity, and is probably why she put you in the friendzone in the first place. If once the possibility of romance is gone and you find no use in her, then you my friend, were not really her friend but one of those hypocrite betas expecting sex for friendship. Doesn't quite work like that. Women don't operate logically


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