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Thread: How long should I wait before I give up?

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    Default How long should I wait before I give up?

    Hi guys

    I've been trying to learn PUA stuff. Even though I know a whole bunch of theory, I do a lot of approaches and my approach anxiety is close to zero my success rate is just disappointing. I am not sure what is wrong or maybe it's not my thing at all. Whatever it is, I cannot try and try forever and at some point I have to give up!

    How long do you think an average guy should practice until getting results? I don't want to give up too soon but this does not sound to go anywhere for me.

    Cheers

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    Default Re: How long should I wait before I give up?

    it depends on on how you run game, it take about 2- 4 years to get good with something, you should be seeing an improvement in months or weeks depending on where you started.you do not give up yet.soon you should see results.

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    Default Re: How long should I wait before I give up?

    Dear aussiearef


    I am actually writing a book on this topic at the moment, look out for it within the 2 months.

    First of all, Dont give up! this is how you will get screwed out of the gene pool.

    I had the same problem when I started taking the PUA stuff seriously.

    I had a good game before I started and all this "theory" almost ruined it.
    So i started to break all the rules that other PUA's told me and before I knew it, I was good again and then learned to improve my game with theory but in a new way.

    You see, guys read these books and forums looking for the "perfect formula" and think that just by learning what to say will help them. But the truth is, it does not work like that.


    • Here are some tips.Make friends with some girls and spend as much time with them as posible. Shopping with them, slumber parties or what ever, even if you have to be their gay best friend. But you will need to learn about girl by been around girls. You wont learn how to surf by reading books about it.


    • Workout. Do pushups, and situp. Change your diet and work on your body.


    • Change your fashion if your not up to scratch. Read magazines to get inspiration.


    • When reading advice on the forums don't take it word for word, take in the essence of what they are trying to say and try and understand it as much as possible.


    • If something does not work, try something else and try new things 2 to 3 time till you find something that works.


    • Observe guys who are good with women, they dont have to be PUA's. Just learn the natural way.


    • Learn on how to become the alpha male.In my book, this is a big part of it. Learn this skill and you wont need openers.

    Try these steps, and don't give up.


    Guy Mitchley

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    Default Re: How long should I wait before I give up?

    Thanks Guy Mitchley it's very nice of you

    I already work out five times a week and I am paying a lot of attention to my look (hair, cloths, body language etc). Unfortunately I have more than one sticking point so for now I feel kind of stressed and confused. I struggle to number close, I screw the a few numbers that I get in text game, and if I can get a date it does not lead to a second date. I am coming to this conclusion that something is missing in me and does not matter how good my techniques are it's not going to work for me.

    When I see smoking hot girls with ugly and terribly dressed white guys I think maybe white women in Sydney are into their own guys only. I wish there was someone from Sydney I could as them about this.

    Anyway thanks and please let me know when your book is out


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