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Thread: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting with

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    Default Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting with

    Hi, I already made another thread about this girl, but now I have a different question. Long story short, I kissed this chick who I was friends with for a long time, but a couple of days later a f*** it up going to her place and teling her I wanted another kiss. She refused it, and that was about it.

    The thing is that 3 days ago I met her and she started flirting with me again (the same way she did the day I kissed her). But we were with this buddy of mine, and as we were at a bar and we are both currently single, he wanted me to be his wingman. My female friend (the one I kissed) started getting jealous and tried to mock us for doing it. Until the point she said she wasn't feeling so good and she left the bar by herself (she took a cab home).

    I still do have a crush on her, and I was wondering if what I did (hit on girls in front of her) lowered my chances of hooking up with her again. I mean, I know I didn't do anything wrong and she had no reason to feel jealous about us doing it, but I started to wonder if she actually wanted to hook-up with me again that night and because of what we did she just changed her mind.

    I know I shouldn't be worrying so much about one particular girl, but I can't seem to get this out of my mind.

    Thanks in advance for the help, and sorry for any grammar mistakes.

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    It most likely upped your chances of getting her to hook up with you.
    Veni, vidi, vici.

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    One thing I know is, don't apologize for being a man. If you were dating her, it might be another story w/ this scenario.

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    Thanks Joker and Jstrong.

    What would you do in this situation? I already made a wrong move when I went to her place and tried a kiss, and I really don't wanna mess it up again. Since I tried that second kiss and got rejected, she stopped calling or texting me, so we haven't been keeping in contact. I only met her that day at the bar because I was with my buddy and she called him and ended up meeting both of us.

    I feel like if I call her I would come off as needy, as she was the one who didn't want the kiss, but I'm pretty sure she was flirting with me again at the bar, and also I know for a fact that she got jealous.

    What should I do? Just wait for the next opportunity to make a move or try something else (call or text her)?

    Thanks again.

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    A very similar scenario just happened to me and with some deep thinking I came to this conclusion: if the rando you kisses is 1+ points higher than your crush you definitely DHV. At par or below and you probably DLV for yourself. Additionally, with the info you gave your frame isn't set up in your favor so an alternative plan should be thought out before your communication is reinstated.
    Personally, I would let her contact me.
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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by precarious1 View Post
    A very similar scenario just happened to me and with some deep thinking I came to this conclusion: if the rando you kisses is 1+ points higher than your crush you definitely DHV. At part or below and you probably DLV for yourself. Additionally, with the info you gave your frame isn't set up in your favor so an alternative plan should be thought out before your communication is reinstated.
    Personally, I would let her contact me.
    Thanks for the input, precarious. English is not my first language, and I'm not that familiar with the pua lingo, so I'm not sure if I understood what you said. Would you mind explaining it again?

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by ms83 View Post
    Thanks for the input, precarious. English is not my first language, and I'm not that familiar with the pua lingo, so I'm not sure if I understood what you said. Would you mind explaining it again?
    If the girl you are hitting on is hotter than "your girl", you up your chances. If not, you lower them.

    I don't necessarily agree with this as it's a bit too black and white. First of all, you can blow it if the girl is both hotter or uglier. In the first case, you will put her in auto rejection, she will think your status is too high and reject you by de facto in order not to burn herself. In the second case, she will think your status is too low and that you can't handle her, and reject you too.

    That is the logical side of it, and we know women are anythint but logical

    Now, if you are with a 9.5, and you hit on a 9 or 8, she will still get jealous. Women are very self conscious, and very emotional. She might start thinking there is something wrong with her and try to improve herself to be with you. A lot of girls looks don't match their internal value compared to other girls, so the whole 1 point higher/1 point lower thing is a bit nebulous. Especially when we add make up to the equation, girls who know what they really look like can have the internal value of a 6 while looking like an 8.

    Bottom line is, flirting with other women equally or as close to as hot as the girl you are targeting USUALLY works in upping your chances, as long as the flirting is not too over the top. Women love drama and uncertainty, but you kissing another girl will usually be taken as a slight. Of course girls are different, but the general from my experience is that flirting with other similarly hot women without going over the top gives the best results. Girls like to know that other women desire you, and also like to know that you are still attainable.

    Of course, sometimes you can get away with almost anything so there is nothing 100% in this. Just act like you did no wrong, apply solid game and you could get away with a lot of shit betas can't.

    I cheated on my GF with an asian 2 whole points below her(russian 8 GF pushing on 8.5) and she cried and tried to stab me when she found out. Our relationship has never been better. I left Canada without telling her and she is planning on following me on my tour of Africa. You can get away with anything like I said, or with nothing. It's all in how you handle it

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    Default Re: Opinions on hitting on other girls in front of someone you're flirting

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaybee View Post
    If the girl you are hitting on is hotter than "your girl", you up your chances. If not, you lower them.

    I don't necessarily agree with this as it's a bit too black and white. First of all, you can blow it if the girl is both hotter or uglier. In the first case, you will put her in auto rejection, she will think your status is too high and reject you by de facto in order not to burn herself. In the second case, she will think your status is too low and that you can't handle her, and reject you too.

    That is the logical side of it, and we know women are anythint but logical

    Now, if you are with a 9.5, and you hit on a 9 or 8, she will still get jealous. Women are very self conscious, and very emotional. She might start thinking there is something wrong with her and try to improve herself to be with you. A lot of girls looks don't match their internal value compared to other girls, so the whole 1 point higher/1 point lower thing is a bit nebulous. Especially when we add make up to the equation, girls who know what they really look like can have the internal value of a 6 while looking like an 8.

    Bottom line is, flirting with other women equally or as close to as hot as the girl you are targeting USUALLY works in upping your chances, as long as the flirting is not too over the top. Women love drama and uncertainty, but you kissing another girl will usually be taken as a slight. Of course girls are different, but the general from my experience is that flirting with other similarly hot women without going over the top gives the best results. Girls like to know that other women desire you, and also like to know that you are still attainable.

    Of course, sometimes you can get away with almost anything so there is nothing 100% in this. Just act like you did no wrong, apply solid game and you could get away with a lot of sh1t betas can't.

    I cheated on my GF with an asian 2 whole points below her(russian 8 GF pushing on 8.5) and she cried and tried to stab me when she found out. Our relationship has never been better. I left Canada without telling her and she is planning on following me on my tour of Africa. You can get away with anything like I said, or with nothing. It's all in how you handle it
    Thanks, I got it now.

    The thing is she didn't really see me making out with anyone. When we were about to approach some random girls, she got a little pissed off and started mocking us for doing it.. then she said she wasn't feeling very well and left.


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