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Thread: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

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    Default Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    Hey all, i've read a few books...read a lot of posts, and think i'm finally able to piece together some work.

    anyway i was downtown recently with a wing and we started chatting up some girls (hb8's). Eventually I have this girl secluded after using dhv, qualifying (pulled the i'm a cig repair lighter line), kino, and commonalities..event ually I started seducing her and discuss how she likes getting her hair pulled. Made out a bit..and then the night was over, #closed and left. She texted me quite a bit that night, but mostly just how she really wants to get to know me and she doens't usually feel that way about guys. She actualy texted me about 5 times without me responding since i passed out... I played it very cocky funny attitude.

    ANyway a day passes, and she texts me askign how I am...once again I play it cool and cocky, and heres kind of how the texts went..

    Her: (opening) hwos your weekend? bla blah work stuff
    Me: great times, hung out with some friends blah blah dhv, and met a chick that speaks russian (referring to her in)
    Her: haha she sounds awesome! well i met a really cute guy who makes light parts hahaha
    Me: Ahh I heard he was a bad man and quite the hair puller...watchout
    Her:Thats a bad thing?
    Her: I'm not too worried about it
    Me: I bet the russian speakign girl would look nice in hi heelz, a sexy skirt, and red tites (spelling construed for internet purposes)

    Her: hmm how did you know? Maybe if you're lucky i'll show you sometime
    Me: (at this point I picked up my phone to see her text right away and accidentally dialed her phone
    number, I hung up after 4 seconds and responded with...) You're lucky enough to get a butt dial
    Her: Hahaha
    Me: Hey you, send me a picture ( i wanted one)
    Her: (now this is 2 hours later close to midnight) i can't sleep (she sends a picture in her bra and panties xD)
    (next day)
    me: Damnn..babe now u got me thinkin of u laid on my bed in some sexy bra and knickers with your hair fanned out
    ...she didn't respond all day
    Me: hey come down lets get a drink tonight
    Her: Hey sorry i was super busy at work today! And i'm at my other job right now rain check?

    At this point i'm really not sure how to respond, is she flaking?

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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    i decided to respond with this

    me: ah work work. some friends are taking me out for bday drinks figured i'd invite you. i'm pretty busy this week, but we can try another night

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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    It's actually a good text game. And the last text was alright because you don't show too much interest into meeting her that night by saying "maybe another night". This time ask her when she wants to hang out so she can be doing some work too.
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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    Quote Originally Posted by knock_out View Post
    Her: (opening) hwos your weekend? bla blah work stuff
    Me: great times, hung out with some friends blah blah dhv, and met a chick that speaks russian (referring to her in)
    Her: haha she sounds awesome! well i met a really cute guy who makes light parts hahaha
    Me: Ahh I heard he was a bad man and quite the hair puller...watchout
    Her:Thats a bad thing?
    Her: I'm not too worried about it
    Me: I bet the russian speakign girl would look nice in hi heelz, a sexy skirt, and red tites (spelling construed for internet purposes)

    Her: hmm how did you know? Maybe if you're lucky i'll show you sometime
    Me: (at this point I picked up my phone to see her text right away and accidentally dialed her phone
    number, I hung up after 4 seconds and responded with...) You're lucky enough to get a butt dial
    Her: Hahaha
    I ain't no expert at texting and I'm definitely no MPUA, but I think base on experiences and trial and error I can give you my 2 cents on this matter.

    You did everything perfectly during your texting interaction up to this point.the teasing, push/pull was good. But then, this happen:
    Quote Originally Posted by knock_out View Post
    Me: Hey you, send me a picture ( i wanted one)
    There is two ways to look at this, the first one I presume you were running some compliance test to check for her compliance towards you (if I presumed right, that was a genius power move on your part), on the other hand if you were just trynna start a "sexting" marathon, that wasn't so smart because you just met her and you still don't know how much error margin she will allocate you. Either way, after she suddenly delay her reply, you should picked up on that and just tease her by pointing something out in the picture but not her. (i.e. "oh nice alarm poster on the wall, too bad your wallpapers sucks " and change the subject, instead of going sexual.
    Always remember keep it light when it comes to talking sexual over text even when the girl initiate, matter of fact don't just tease, or acknowledge and change the subject. Keep what she said in mind for a face to face meeting as it's easier to calibrate the sexual tension.

    Quote Originally Posted by knock_out View Post
    (next day)
    me: Damnn..babe now u got me thinkin of u laid on my bed in some sexy bra and knickers with your hair fanned out
    ...she didn't respond all day
    Me: hey come down lets get a drink tonight
    Her: Hey sorry i was super busy at work today! And i'm at my other job right now rain check?
    At this point i'm really not sure how to respond, is she flaking?
    Mistake#2 : that was a new day, but you stayed sexual right off the bat, disregarding the fact that the sexual tension might have dropped down to zero. Reason why you didn't get a reply all day. If you wanted to pick up the last thread, you should have baited her first and see if she was feeling the vibe and wait for her to take the bait first before going back sexual.

    Mistake#3: never send text back to back, even if the HB is smoking hot, it sends the wrong signal. Wait a couple of days then re-engage with something fresh. Keeps you from losing values in her eyes.

    Hope this helped. Good luck.
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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    See, I ask some girls for pictures.... but that's all I use them for. I don't take those ones out, I don't really talk to them on a daily biases, & I don't have any intentions on letting her outside of the box I've put her in. Asking for pictures changes the subconscious interaction between you and a girl completely. Therefore, I don't recommend it!

    Also, I want to echo what Nikee said... the vibe wasn't the same in the morning, so that's probably why she didn't text you back. Lastly, never double text a girl if it's been 60 seconds after the first one. That last part is a personal rule, anything after 60 seconds comes off as you trying to get her to respond quicker.

    Sounds like you had a kick ass night though & I wouldn't worry too much. She's interested!
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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    Maybe she doesn't wanna seem easy? Also seems like shes tryin to add worth to herself by saying she's been really busy and has 2 jobs...
    The good thing is she proposed a rain check so good stuff there...

    My response would've been " Maybe, only if im in the mood though "
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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    I noticed something i missed earlier...girls generally dont like being called "babe" by anyone other than their boyfriend...it just might be the culprit
    -"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"

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    Default Re: Text Game- Raincheck Fail?

    certainly a lot of awesome input here...especially the fact that it was the next day and I should have thrown out some bait to escalate first. thanks to you all! I do believe when she texted me a picture of her in her bra and panties saying she couldn't sleep, that may have been an opportunity to tell her to come over...but it was 12am and she likely would have said she couldn't is my guess.

    anyway, she started texting me back after I said what I was doing last night.

    Her: sure just let me know whens your birthday?
    Me: Apparently every day this week according to my friends lol
    Her: How old?
    Me: Old enough to party
    Her: Oh so 40?
    Me: yup and you're too young an inexperienced for me
    her: haha really now. I think I should be the judge of that

    I didn't text her back at this point, figured this was a good point to cut communication. I figured I might start the convo back up tomorrow to try to get her to get a drink and f close her. What is your guys input, and what might be a good way to throw sexual bait?


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