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    Default ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Hey PUAs hope all is well! So heres the deal ive been number closing alot of chicks! But the issue is i dont know how to take it to the next level! They end up not replying...i want to know what im doing wrong where are my mistakes! How to play my next move!

    Example: Today i met a milf with her kids (no ring on) i helped her with he groceries we caught up random bull crap! I found out that shes a CMT and i was like i can always use a massage, and i was like lets catch up on "massages and physical therapy" blah blah! She gave me her number and texted me right away with her name!

    I Have absolutely no idea what to do next she has a baby, and was telling me how shes trying to bike, and lose her baby weight!

    Talking to girls and getting their number is not an issue, i just fail to get replies, and dont know what im doing wrong!!

    Please help guys this has been a huge problem and ive probably gotten flaked 10 times! Cheers gentleman!

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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    You're getting their numbers, right? "She gave me her number and texted me right away with her name!" is supper confusing, if she gave you HER number... how did she text you? Do you just exchange each others contacts all in one?
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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    generally you need to spend 20mins with them before a phone number has any real value.

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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Quote Originally Posted by happy46073 View Post
    generally you need to spend 20mins with them before a phone number has any real value.
    I heard this same statement a few days ago and, I have to disagree completely. Why do you think this though?
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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    She gave me her number, and i told her to text it to me! And it said Hi its Sarah (made up)...

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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Ok,

    Well yes you can get a girl to go on a date in under 20mins.

    But, for the kind of girls that I am interested in dating general in order to qualify to for further interaction with them you need to spend at least 20mins.

    They are getting hit on my guys all the time, and they have a lot of choice and it will generally take 20mins to build enough rapport to be viewed as worthy of spending more time with.

    But yes, i have dated girls who I have only spoken to for 2mins, but then it took about 18mins of phone conversations over a week.

    I just feel like i dont want to waste time fucking around, so its best to just spend 20mins.

    I also wont want to go for a girl who I havnt spent 20mins with, because I really dont know exactly what i am getting myself into if I go on a date with her. But, 20mins can give quite a good indicator of how things will go.

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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Quote Originally Posted by drdunk View Post
    She gave me her number, and i told her to text it to me! And it said Hi its Sarah (made up)...
    So she gave you her number and you told her to text you her name? How did she get your number?
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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    I think this one's a matter of opinion, Happy. I can personally say that I've never spent 20 minutes talking to a girl after I opened her. The only scenario that I can see this working is at a club or bar. If I'm day gaming, I'm acting busy... and most of the time the girl is on her way to something and doesn't have time to spend 20 minutes talking. Play with her, get her number, and leave her wanting more... that's my way to go about it!
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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Ok so....the update i waited for a few hours before i replied...i was like oh hey its the super mommy! Talked about how do you do it and whats your drive...blah blah!After a couple texts i just picked up the phone and called her!When off on medicine, and philosophy and all that crap, and got her skype! Just got off skype with her...shes been calling me hun and is pretty much intrigued by me..

    1.) act like you know what youre talking about
    2.) to some extent know what your talking about, dont let them call your bluff!
    3.) have a sort of F you attitude, i dont need you, but dont push it too much, ( you gotta go with the flow)

    So heres the deal, i think that the factor here was age! She was a little older and the girls prior this were all 5-6 years younger and have a different mindset!

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    Default Re: ** What am i doing WRONG**???

    Depends on what you're texting them
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