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    Default How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    So I met this hb10 when I was out this weekend! So we talked and danced blah blah and then I suggested we get something to eat! I suggested a burrito and we got some and she said she would make me some and that she's the best at it! She also told me she was going camping.

    Me: have fun camping..you still owe me you famous burrito haha
    Hb: sorry I don't really get service here lol hahaha yes I do
    Me: no worries I figured.. Jus text me when you get back.

    What should i do? She's back from camping as she said she would be in few days but what should I do to get her out for drinks? How should I remind her that sh1t I still exist! She told me how hard she works! She hasn't texted me back!

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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    I cant judge the interaction too much, but i can however judge the texts between yall.

    You're initial text was good, except im not a big fan of putting haha at the end of it, it implies that youre joking and makes you come accross as shy because your trying to lighten the mood. Just tell her she still owes you a homemade burrito with 2000 calories or some shit.

    Her response in my opinion was a little dry, she didnt seem to drawn to the convo, and she also didnt go into detail about when and where this burrito dates gonna happen.

    And finally your last text,i like to be playful sometimes instead of agreeing with women...about the service thing try to say something like "shoulda gotten verizon" and you couldve left it at that. As for the second part where you say hit me up when your back, well it comes off as needy to be honest. A better text in my opinion wouldve been "ill see you when you get back"

    Now remember these are solely my opinions and they may not be the best. I only speak from experience and from what has worked for me in the past.
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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    Quote Originally Posted by JafariFTW View Post
    I cant judge the interaction too much, but i can however judge the texts between yall.

    You're initial text was good, except im not a big fan of putting haha at the end of it, it implies that youre joking and makes you come accross as shy because your trying to lighten the mood. Just tell her she still owes you a homemade burrito with 2000 calories or some sh1t.

    Her response in my opinion was a little dry, she didnt seem to drawn to the convo, and she also didnt go into detail about when and where this burrito dates gonna happen.

    And finally your last text,i like to be playful sometimes instead of agreeing with women...about the service thing try to say something like "shoulda gotten verizon" and you couldve left it at that. As for the second part where you say hit me up when your back, well it comes off as needy to be honest. A better text in my opinion wouldve been "ill see you when you get back"

    Now remember these are solely my opinions and they may not be the best. I only speak from experience and from what has worked for me in the past.
    damn that's good advice man, I'm just an AFC trying to get better. Thank you sir

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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    Thats what im here for man, and if anything your an ALC (average learning chump). I just might copyright that
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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    Quote Originally Posted by JafariFTW View Post
    Thats what im here for man, and if anything your an ALC (average learning chump). I just might copyright that
    since you pointed out that my last text was a bit needy, do you think I should wait a couple more days! It's already been like 5 days since when she said i don't get service!

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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    Yea dude you can resend a text its been plenty of time. and of course im gonna put myself in your shoes and tell you what i would say...
    "did you get eaten by a bear or some shit?"
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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    Quote Originally Posted by JafariFTW View Post
    Yea dude you can resend a text its been plenty of time. and of course im gonna put myself in your shoes and tell you what i would say...
    "did you get eaten by a bear or some sh1t?"
    nice that's perfect but the "shit part" I don't curse much.. Is there anything else I can use?

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    Default Re: How to set up a first date or invite out for drinks??

    you could say "you get eaten by a bear or what? or did you get eaten by a bear or something?...the point is to ask the question the same way youd ask your best friend, itll make her more comfortable with you
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