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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Johnny don't beat yourself up it's all good, it happens even to the best of us, but you what shouldn't happen to you? Repeating the same mistakes.

    From what I see, your text lack substance, lack emotion triggers. There is so much resources on this site, look around you'll learn a lot. Don't look for a short cut by asking the play by play, rather find the resources on this site and copy a successful "blueprint".

    Don't call her as of yet to avoid ackwardness. Work on your text game, show teasing/playful and built basic comfort thru text first, before starting calling her.

    That's just my opinion. Good luck.
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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    I have a question, from what i've read there really is no college game. It's about building your social circle, and then the girls will come. Well, my social circle is pretty big and it seems every week it gets bigger.

    For the past weekends i got 3 numbers, 2 of those girls i saw were dancing so i just walked up and asked to dance or put my hand out and smiled, they grabbed it and we started to dance.

    Later i gave them my phone to put their number in. And it seems like its the same situation everytime i text them. Is it because i have no rapport? Should i not have approached them on the dance floor but approached them somewhere else, build rapport, and then ask to dance?

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Nothing wrong with approaching girls on the dance floor but it's how you take it from there that matters.

    Any guy will come smile at them and dance and when he's not a complete lost case they'd give him their number, everyone wants to make friends in college so numbers mean almost nothing.

    You gotta escalate, touch more, maybe whisper a few good things in their ears and then isolate man! Take them out to a more quiet place to talk = to close. That's basic game.

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    thats what i did! i read about a trick where you graze your nose along her hair/back of neck and tell her her hair smells good.

    i just got back from the gym and i think i saw her there but we just looked at eachother, im the gym, in a different mindset i cant talk to girls then lol

    is this a total loss? how can i maybe turn this around?

    since im not at a party how do i build rapport with her? im a little sketched out about texting her again since she didnt respond the first time.

    ughhh this really stresses me out.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    It's a total loss when you're that stressed out about it. Have more options, it's the best way to avoid stressing on just one babe.

    Rapport has nothing to do with parties. You don't need to be drunk and dancing to approach women and create a connection, you've got a lot more to learn so get on it.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    thats what i did! i read about a trick where you graze your nose along her hair/back of neck and tell her her hair smells good.

    i just got back from the gym and i think i saw her there but we just looked at eachother, im the gym, in a different mindset i cant talk to girls then lol

    is this a total loss? how can i maybe turn this around?

    since im not at a party how do i build rapport with her? im a little sketched out about texting her again since she didnt respond the first time.

    ughhh this really stresses me out.
    This was an important screw up; may not have killed the interaction between you do but this was an excellent opportunity to up your position. Saying the right thing, is better than just saying something, but saying something is always better than saying nothing.

    I get it, your at the gym, people around, your sweaty, she's sweaty, you want to do your thing and get out. But that's what makes you different, all the other guys are there so they can get jacked on the off chance that after they booze up this weekend one girl might be drunk enough to go home with them and see the work they put in. Why not kill two birds with one stone?

    I'd approach at a place like that with more of a cocky funny attitude, this is a huge swing from the normal awkward atmosphere and will really give you some brownie points. Walk up with a huge smile, and say "hey trouble, get you tickets to the gun show?" You know what to do when you say it. Hard sell I know, but if played right, even with a few follow up questions and a tiny bit of small talk before ejecting you should be set in the right direction.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Im not that daring man, im a pu**y. Especially if i do that on my campus, its small i know a lot of people and a lot of people know me. What if i get known as that creepy kid? Ill be doen for girls. Idk i might be paranoid but i still cant do that to her. Thanks for the advice though my friend

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    Quote Originally Posted by johnnybob62 View Post
    Im not that daring man, im a pu**y. Especially if i do that on my campus, its small i know a lot of people and a lot of people know me. What if i get known as that creepy kid? Ill be doen for girls. Idk i might be paranoid but i still cant do that to her. Thanks for the advice though my friend
    I get ya, it is tough, and you definitely need to be in the right mind set to hit the nail on the head. The important thing here is taking a step. If you always do what you've done, you'll always get what you got. And from the sound of it you haven't got the girl. Time to change it up.

    The Pickup Podcast by the Art of Charm had a porn star guest on once, Brynn Tyler, who I looked up after and found she's pretty much a 10. Curiosity struck me after this girl on the Podcast kept saying how much she loved shy guys, I couldn't imagine her being that great looking, turns out... she was. The point is you don't have to be this amazingly out going guy to snag up a smoking hottie. But you do have to be confident in who you are.

    These 'shy' guys most likely had a sense of mystery to them; even though they may not have said too much at the beginning, they probably stood confidently and had a sense of understanding about themselves. You've seen that shy girl who smiles and looks down, then back up to see if your still looking. Same thing.

    Seems contradictory, I know, but the important thing is taking a few steps outwardly to find where your confident self stands and then trying to progress in the right direction from there. Everything on this site is just a guide, not a rule.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    she probably rounded up a bunch of numbers as a ego boost thus to make her looking important..all those times you see girls on their phones typing away, they either gossiping with their girlfriends or using that moment to text a AFC to "look" important.

    Tip, look for girls that got more important things to do then be the coolest non-important person in society with a phone glued to their hand every moment.

    Yes it is possible.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With Attention Whores

    bbalking and dj chill thanks for the replies, very helpful!

    now being in college and the fact that girl hand out their numbers like candy, im gonna need to work on my text game.

    know of any good readings/videos that would help me out?

    ALSO! last night i was dancing with this hb the whole night, she kept grabbing me to go dance with her, she was really into me but everytime i went to go kiss her she turned away and smiled but kept dancing. got her number but didnt text her yet. how can i play this one differently?


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