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    Default so i kissclose, get her number and im friends with her friends next step?

    so i was at this party last night where i invited some girlfriends. i know these girls pretty good except this one that i know was interested in me a while ago at another party. anyways i invite these 3 girls and this party was kinda bad, i mean girls just running around behaving like they were 15. anyhow i sit down like a boss and alpha the shit out of every conversation and the whole balcony sat around me/us so we move inside i meet up with somefriends that wanna do the beergame or someshit, so i take the girls hand and say beer game now over here, we move there she ends up in my knee i place my arm around her neck and the other one on her thigh, the music was pretty loud so i did the best i could. i straight up held my lips on her ear and whisper u know u look so damn good, but i wonder if u kiss as good as u look? she just melted in my lap and we made out for like seriously an 30 minutes or so. ( pretty disgusting...) haha the problem there is i should have escalated to a more private area, but i just didnt feel like it. specially not on a random party where anyone can just walk into the room! so i just made out with her " cuddle " with her the whole night. i know she wanted me to escalate so bad i felt her vibes but i just didnt feel for it, aswell i jacked off right before the party ( big mistake never do that again) so i wasnt really horny either. ended up i grabbed some boobs and made out. she laughed i laughed. when she was about to go home she was kinda pissed that i didnt escalate, she didnt say anything about it but still i felt her vibe. she just said bye and left not even a hug but i got her number atleast. her friends / mine thought we were cute ( lol ). but really now i dont know what to do. is she still interested in hooking up with me, or was i just a good time at a boring party? when and what do i text her? right now i feel kinda boss though cause i dont really think of her all the time, but i made out with the most goodlooking girl at the party! but still i'd like to keep her interested in me! so please experts help me out on this!

    - by the way im new to this forum and this shit seems awesome so far! my pleasure for joining in the community!

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    Default Re: so i kissclose, get her number and im friends with her friends next ste

    If she really is the hottest babe at the party then she sure will regret picking you and not getting the real deal in the end since she could have picked any guy she wanted there.

    Your aim should be to make it up to her without looking needy, gotta replace that last memory in her head. Wait a couple of days and call, get her to see you and make it fun (and private if you think it matters).

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    Default Re: so i kissclose, get her number and im friends with her friends next ste

    haha, okay i completely fucked up without checking my post first for any response first. ( stupid me ) but hey you learn from experiance right? i texted her one day after and said that i kinda felt disgusted for makingout with her for almost 2 hours straight. and that i really didnt wanna take it anyfurther on a random party but if she was doing something in the week we could meet up. when i read this back i just felt like a fucking asscrack. who the fuck says that anyways hahaha! whatever after that fuck up she replied lol we made out on a party relax mabye? and responded, orly? i thought we got married, jokes aside i'd still wanna meet you. and she said, look u should talk to ( her friend). as this girl recently got out from an relationship it was kinda obvious she thought i wanted to get all serious with her and she meant that her friend is a sweet relationship girl. and i replied with haha u are missunderstanding me, im just looking for fun, nothing serious. and she replied " nice save " i just think in my head, well fuck it. i made out with her for 2 hours straight and she was the one wanting more the whole night, so i replied with " nice blow " and nothing more after that. i guess my chances are fucked with this girl? thanks if you wanna reply!

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    Default Re: so i kissclose, get her number and im friends with her friends next ste

    I'm going to be the bad news bearer. Yes your chances got "farked" the second you decided to use the word disgusted in a text to describe making out with her and making a big deal out of it.

    It's good that you learned though, keep working on your game champ.

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    Default Re: so i kissclose, get her number and im friends with her friends next ste

    Quote Originally Posted by DirtyOnPurpose View Post
    I'm going to be the bad news bearer. Yes your chances got "farked" the second you decided to use the word disgusted in a text to describe making out with her and making a big deal out of it.

    It's good that you learned though, keep working on your game champ.
    I didn't mind your use of disgusted. The focus was on how you felt, though she may take it that she made you feel that way, if she was at all emotionally connected she'd realize that you just wanted some discretion. This is a good thing. You wanted to feel comfortable and you didn't. Stating that gives you and alpha look.

    However, maybe for next time, I wouldn't have pursued much further. Mystery Method puts this as fool's mate: the player. You went from attraction to seducer, which worked great, but you blew your opportunity to seal it up. Now she believes you only want to talk to her to get more of what you already have; not many people like to take steps backwards and girls realize this is what you would have to do if you deeply wanted to get to know her personality (an unlikely event in her mind). Next time, wait until the next weekend comes along and see if your girl friends don't bring her along again. If not, text her and tell her to come, if she doesn't or doesn't want to, end it and text her the next day telling her how the party went. Go from there.

    Your right, the only real way to learn is from experience, here's your opportunity.


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