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    redbird555 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Can I salvage this hookup HB8.5

    Hey guys. So I've been talkin to this hb8.5 for a few days she's an old friend who I recently just got reacquainted with. We've been having good flirty txts and went out the other night and had pretty good kino. Last night we go out in key west and before she was sendin me all types of ioi's in texts about her panties and shit. So I was atleast planning to try and K close her.

    So we go out, we dance for a little bit then other dudes start hittin on her and she starts dancing with them. I was with some friends and decided to go find other girls to dance with. I ended up drinking, dancing/k closing with another chick (not as hot) and the HB saw it didn't bode well for my social proof.

    My one buddy was talking to her and told her and the convo went like this....

    Wing: hey****** so what's up with you and *** I thought you two were gonna end up together tonight.
    HB: *starts smiling. Uggh idk why did he say something???
    Wing:no just thought you 2 had something going over the past few days.
    HB:well he hooked up with that other girl so.....


    So needless to say I think I may have fucked this one up she was kinda turned off by what I did. But I was there to party and so was she. I wasn't gonna wait around like an afc while she was off with other guys.

    She broke one of her heels n her feet hurt so I did end up carrying her back to the car which she was feelin inside my shirt a little but by that time I thought it was too late. She knows I fully regret what happened after cuz I spent the rest of the night tryin to get away from the k close chick.

    Today ill see her again as she's gonna come hang out with me and my buddies from last night at one of our places. Idk if I should talk to her about last night or what I still wanna f close her but I just don't know if I can recover from this.

    Thanks red-

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this hookup HB8.5

    Hmm you may isolate this girl and deal with her one on one..
    focus more on interaction remember you carried her to the car she knows you care and it implies in this dynamic you chose her on some level at least.
    you may not want to light soar memories if it hit her as in you kissing the other..just move ahead with her.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this hookup HB8.5

    I don't think it's the end of the world honestly. You reacted appropriately, carried her to the car, and distanced yourself from the other woman. I wouldn't go begging for forgiveness. Like you said, you both went off with different people that evening- it just so happens that you are in high demand and kissed. She was probably dry humping dudes on the other side of the room. Re-establish rapport, then kino escalate and get some sexual tension going tonight.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this hookup HB8.5

    First to begin with the party night, she did all that talking to other boys and dancing with them just show you she has other options, to make you jealous, to not give it up to you so easily, bla bla bla... You know, girls will be girls bro.

    When she does that, if you really just want her don't go make out with other girls. Open sets, make conversations, have fun and you can even escalate and number close but making out with some other babe that is less hot won't raise your value in her eyes. You just need to look like you're having fun without her, and that doesn't have to be tongue in your throat fun.

    Now to fix this, like the others said you showed that you care and she obviously knows it. Forget about that party and take it from there, isolate her, connect, escalate and close.

    If she's texting you about her panties than I'm sure you can do better than a kiss close.

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    Default Re: Can I salvage this hookup HB8.5

    Thanks guys my buddies are just givin. Me shit about the whole thing and have doubts I can rebuild it. But well see what happens she just called to confirm our plans for hanging out in a bit.

    I think I'm just gonna try to put last night out of the picture and if questions ill just own up to it and say I had a but to much to drink, it was a mistake but it happened and own up to it. What do you all think?

    In the meanwhile just continue to run whatever game I can and see what happens


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