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    benchase22 is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Friends calling me gay

    when me and my friends go out, they always tell girls im gay, as a joke. The girls will always ask " are you really?" in a shocking manner. Ive heard about the one line where you tell them "If I wasn't, you would be so mine" and girls laugh and we have conversation and such. I used a line the other night when my friend called me gay, the girls asked if i was and i said " I change my mind occasionally", and it went pretty well from there on. I got lucky with one girl who was in one of these situations with me. So im asking if there are other things i can say when a my buddies decide to make me the "gay" guy.???

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    I think that you should be more concerned about dealing with these guys you call "friends" who are obviously the root of the problem here.

    Are you cool with being the joke they use to look funny in front of girls?

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    Well im the only one that gets anything at all from a girl out of everybody so i just use it to my advantage. Just wondering if there is anything else I can say. My friends dont do it cuz they hate me. They jus say that because im more cleaner and pretty boy looking and dress up more, if they weren`t really my friends i would still be around them just so i can be the only one getting positive responses from women. if they wana call me gay and i still get some, then im game for that.

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    Hah cheesy but I get your groove buddy.

    You may use the following:
    -The classic: too bad I'm gay otherwise you'd be so my type.
    Also:
    -My own special:
    Hb: are you gay? Me: before or after meeting you?

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    You are the best judge to see if these gay comments from your friends are harmless banter, jealousy or nastiness. Guys who are gay or spend more time in the bathroom than they do making themselves look good are popular with woman. Whether these types of guys stays in friend zone or progresses to something else, I don't know. Try it out and see how far it goes. Good luck!!

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    yea i got lucky during one of these scenarios and i was thinking that maybe i could use it to my advantage.

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    It might be worth considering if Peacocking can work to your advantage with your type of PUA approach. Don't wear anything that is too camp but something more flamboyant, bright, loud or outrageous that makes you stand out.

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    I used to have friends like that. It's fcking annoying. If getting your friends to stop doesn't work, then just turn it into a joke. Pretend its a girl who said it and its a shit test, and respond accordingly. A few lines I may use:

    "yeah but you could be the one to turn me straight"
    "I'll prove to you that i'm not gay" and if she responds positively and is hot, kiss her. If she's ugly pull out your phone, go to your contact list, and say "Pick a number" and start naming off girls names.
    Keys is just to act like it doesn't phase you. Another thing you could do is turn it around on them, something like "he's just jealous that I'm getting all the girls that he never stood a chance with".

    another response could be "nah I'm not. I'm just so good looking that girls and guys hit on me wherever I go. I cant help it, I mean I'd hit on me too if I were gay".

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    Default Re: Friends calling me gay

    I like treating it like a sh1t test. That's really what it is. Guy friends who are of high value rarely get picked on in this manner (or teased or whatever). This is so because the teaser already knows this guy is going to pass the sh1t test and make him look like a fool.

    Sh1t tests can be passed in two ways. One, going along with the joke and making it sound so ridiculous that they figured it didn't phase you. When you agree with something somebody said and take it further it's a form of manipulation. People don't like to be manipulated, thus you passed the sh1t test.

    Two, and of course these require a feel of the situation, a simple comeback. Turn it back around on them. This, I believe, if not done cruelly can be a more effective way of gaining social proof. Though it requires wit, and can be difficult.

    Ex:
    "He's gay"
    "He wears tighty whities"

    "He's gay"
    "He's been asking me to be for years"

    "He's gay"
    "He wishes"

    "He's gay"
    "Ahhh, I remember my first gay joke"

    "He's gay"
    "Your 12 year old brother called, he wants his sense of humor back"

    These all need to be said with a strong frame, otherwise they'll keep coming. Knock this down before it starts, it shows your strong. If they come at you with another, do something childish as well. Say "shhh, it's okay" and move your finger towards their lips. Touch them if possible (touching shows dominance), keep doing it if they push your hand away. And don't be over serious about it, people will catch on to it. Smile and laugh afterwards. They'll understand.
    Last edited by Bballking; 09-09-2013 at 08:54 PM. Reason: oops


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