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    sinclair1970 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Do I have any chance of getting out of the Friend Zone?

    I met a HB9 at a BBQ at my buddy's place (she's a friend of his wife). We talked and flirted a little, but I didn't number close because the women were in the house and the guys were out on the deck smoking cigars and I didn't realize she had left. A few days later she accepted my friend on Facebook, and I was able to get her number from her profile. We texted a few times that week and I saw her again the following weekend at my buddy's wife's birthday. We flirted some more and there was some very light kino but at the end of the night when I asked if she wanted to go out and continue this she shot me down and gave me the LJBF speech. I played it off like it was no big deal.

    Over the next little while I friend zone her back. I tried to up my social proof, I talked about other girls and posted pics on Facebook of me out having fun. She immediately relaxed around me, we hung out often and she was receptive to my texts and even initiated contact. I thought my plan was working and she was coming around and I told my buddy I was going to make another play, but he told me he had overheard HB9 telling my wife how she feels more relaxed around me because I am acting like a friend and seeing other girls so she doesn't have to worry about me having a crush or making a move. So now I am stumped. This is the opposite of what I wanted. This has never happened before, every other time I have tried it has had the effect I wanted (getting out of the friend zone) Any advice as to how I can get out of the friend zone would greatly be appreciated. Thanks all!

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: Do I have any chance of getting out of the Friend Zone?

    Just continue with making the move anyway...to me that was subliminal jealousy baiter.she is not supposed to talk about it.its either the other women confronted her and she used it as an excuse.. either ways as long as she is receptive move things ahead.

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    Default Re: Do I have any chance of getting out of the Friend Zone?

    I'd let this one ride. If you want to work on your social proof at all, having an attractive woman around is definitely the best way to go about it.

    She's become comfortable with you as a person, and unfortunately to you, as a friend. The only real way to break that friendship would be to break that comfort. You undoubtedly could do so by going in for the move, but if you fail, that comfort isn't coming back, period. Instead, change the way you act around her. Slowly reel back the comfort and assert yourself more. Start to banter. Bring her around as much as possible. Banter. But don't act like you need her around. Banter. Avoid talking about old relationships and sex. And of course, banter. You have to start teasing her, playing her, and, for lack of a better word, one-uping her. When your befriended by a girl it's most likely because of your lack of just those things. Your nice, kind, and easy to talk to. Your actions at time can say those things but your words should not (without being intentionally mean).

    For as long as you remain her friend and do what you do, she'll always know that underneath it all your still interested and she could have you at the drop of a hat. Become uninterested, disqualify if need be. She'll start wondering.


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