Re: Girl flaked on me but rescheduled- handling a flake
Given that she rescheduled it indeed sounds like something legitimate may have come up, so I'd give her the benefit of the doubt in this situation. But my theory is you should never telegraph your intentions with something like "If you flake on me again, then it's game over". You don't owe her an explanation or fair warning, and it's not going to signal abundance to her, only that you're worried about what she'll do. I think your situation is fine but if she tries to reschedule again or just blows you off, just drop her. That says more than any text could.
"Dating is a lot like fishing. It's about patience and self control, while never over thinking anything...take your time bringing it in; if you reel too hard you can rip the hook out... But reel in too soft and you can lose the fish. You have to feel when to give and when to take." - Icarus