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    JakeSill is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What to say to invite a girl home?

    I met this cute girl at a frat party. We were dirty dancing and I think she was kinda DTF. I chickened out when she went to go look for her friends. I just let I go. I wasn't able to invite her back to my place. I'm regretting it till this day.

    So what do I say to a girl to get her to come over to my place?

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    Default Re: What to say to invite a girl home?

    Let's go somewhere more comfortable where the drinks are less expensive.

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    Default Re: What to say to invite a girl home?

    There's steps to get there, you gotta kiss close at least and have very good kino the whole night. And if she wasn't a drunk party girl then you'll also need to build rapport to make her trust you enough to instantly bounce to your place.

    You shouldn't be worrying about what to say, it's about how to get there.

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    Default Re: What to say to invite a girl home?

    In your situation I wouldn't have tried to take her home right away. I would have gone for a bounce. "I want to grab a slice of pizza with you. Come on."

    From there, you're in a better position because a slice of pizza isn't as big of a commitment as going home to your place, it works to isolate her, and it increases her level of investment.

    Once you get a girl to the point where she's willing to go home with you, a simple, "Let's get out of here," is all it takes.

    As an aside, when I'm with a date at a bar, I really like the line above, "Let's go somewhere more comfortable where the drinks are less expensive." I've used this line a couple times.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: What to say to invite a girl home?

    I'm in a Fraternity bro. Usually what happens is you either get too touchy with the girl and make her feel really uncomfortable, which I've seen a few guys do and she ends up running away to find her friends and other guys to dance with. When this happens, just let it go. It's a frat party. Look around and pick yourself another hot babe.

    Best way to get her to go back with you is to build up that sexual tension when dancing (you actually need to be a good dancer). Keep your hands out of her privates but tease the heck out of her. Lean for a kiss, then back away when she tries to close it (if she does) and do the "no no no" gesture with your index finger. This will make them go crazy and it makes it seem like she is coming onto you... After that and a little more teasing, the taking her back to your place should be fairly easy, UNLESS she has intrusive c**k-blocking female friends.

    Girls got to frat parties in groups and the majority expect to go back with that same group.

    Hope that helps bud.

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    Default Re: What to say to invite a girl home?

    "Girls go to frat parties in groups and the majority expect to go back with that same group"

    Pretty darn true. In fact, that's how it is most of the time when girls go out. If your not connecting with her friends in some way your fighting a losing battle.

    If she is running off to find her friends anyway she is looking for an excuse to go out. I'll bet my left nut had you asked her to go home with you she would have bounced anyway. Though you may not be kicking yourself so much for at least trying. So take that lesson. As was stated above there are typically steps to go through but if you do well enough on the dance floor and she is willing and ready, whisper into her ear "come with me" grab her hand, lead her outside, and go for a k-close. If she plays along, stretch it out and start leading her away from the party. If she resists go inside with her, and meet her friends, if she doesn't, tear it up!


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