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    Default Perfect night to zero

    In need for some advice:

    So I met a HB8 at the bar, talked to her for very little since I had to get back to my friends, but before leaving I made sure to isolate her for a min and number close. The next day I'd exchange funny text message with her and quickly secure a date for tomorrow. Then here we were on a date, and it went so well that I did F close on the same night. I usually always kiss close first dates but I did not expect the F close. Before I leave the next morning she told me that she had a great night. That night she even alluded at a venue we could go on a second date.

    ..and then nothing. Its been three days now: the first day she did not respond my text, the second she responded with a short platonic text and the third she did not respond. I told her Id stop texting, then she apologized saying she meant to respond earlier but that she couldn't see me tomorrow as I initially had suggested.

    I am confused on how it seemed perfect and now its horrible. I feel like I should stop talking to her for a little while, but then not sure how to start a new text convo.

    Thanks for any tips you guys may have!

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    Default Re: Perfect night to zero

    It's called buyer's remorse. Even though you didn't f-close she feels like she may have offered up too much and is regretting that. So she is pulling back.

    A word of advice that I have given before, "Strike when the iron is hot"

    Hot steel can be molded any way you want. Cold steel you could pound with the biggest hammers in the hands of the strongest men and you will barely make a dent.

    Dude, do us all a favor next time you're in the same situation just f-close. You'll feel hell of a lot better.

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    phenix is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: Perfect night to zero

    Hey sorry I just realized my wording was bad. I did F close. I just fixed it in the text.

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    Default Re: Perfect night to zero

    While you did F close, it's still the same answer. She fcked you and she more likely than not feels bad about it. Maybe she feels you guys moved too fast. Or maybe she thinks all you want is sex. Or maybe you're coming off as needy, which is most likely as you texted the following three days and asked for another date.

    After F closing I usually hit them up the next day, don't bring up the sex at all but instead something you did on the date. If she brings it up then its cool to talk about it but otherwise just make a connection based on your experience together. End the text convo early on and don't bring up your next date. Doing this will make you appear less needy, doesn't make it look like all you care about is sex, and will build comfort.

    Then I like to wait until 5-7 days to hit her up again and after a couple flirty texts back and fourth ask for another meet up. Don't come off as needy just because you F closed. You never stop gaming her, just the way you game her changes drastically. Especially after the second f close.

    I read a very interesting thread on another forum about this subject, and I feel they are more experienced to talk about it than I am. Basically they're saying you gotta build attraction until you f closed two times, then you switch your game from attraction mode to comfort mode.

    As for this girl, I'd freeze out for maybe a week then try to build more attraction via text. Its most likely a lost cause with this girl but it's worth the try to salvage it. Just send a fun flirty text, joke around then at the peak of the convo (if she's responding positively) ask for another meet up. Good luck!
    Last edited by KristiBell; 09-09-2013 at 08:22 AM.

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    Default Re: Perfect night to zero

    Thanks for the advice ppl. I'll freeze out as suggested and see what happens!


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