Re: I dont usually ask questions, but when I do...
I dont think I've explained the situation the best way possible. Let me elaborate.
My definition of honesty towards women is being "yourself" when you interact with them. I've acknowledged the importance of voice, flirting and showing your value and in a sense, incorporated that into my REAL personailty. That being said, I already know I attracted her within the first few minutes of us talking.
When I say i dont use 'game' what I mean is im not TRYING to attract by saying certain things that would help me. All im saying is My unique personality + being myself got her attracted to me. It was a situation where I wasnt always asking questions or looking for topics to surface up...she was the one doing that.
Which bring me upon a realization I just made...I lied, I was using game. And my game = getting girls to chase me because in their eyes, I'm the prize.
Those texts I showed all occured within 45 minutes, and were only executed to meet up. I feel like in that situation theres no point in trying to be funny/cocky or whatever. Im just being real and trying to make this meet up as simple as possible.
It seems like what you're saying is that we should try to attract women with unique texts and forms of flirtation. But in the end I believe, that the girl should be trying to attract us in the same regard.
-"Dependence is only a state of mind, Independence is a state of being, because in the end all we really have in the world is ourselves"