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    solid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default So, experts and connection with the "target" and her friends. need help

    first of all i didnt know if i should have put it here or in text game thread!

    alright. so ive got many female friends that i'd really wanna get down with (you know what i mean) but of course there is noway i could do them all! latley texting is what people do today to stay in touch etc. ive been reading some textgame advice cause there is a big area of texting that i need to get straight! so in these guides who actually work kinda good iv'e been reading from message 1 to message date time. there is one thing they dont cover which is my biggest problem! how often do i really text her? iv'e laid off writing thing like "hey, whats up today?" and all that nonsense. but the "funny texts" for example what i wrote the other day to a girl.
    "hey i saw a cat and it reminded me of you! just texting to make sure you didnt turn into a cat haha!"

    response was positive. a flirt smile and some "haha's" but still i think of these good looking girls alot and somewhere in my mind i think the more i write with them the more they will think of me and like me! but it made me no succes. ive could have texted with hearts and all that bullcrao for everyday a straight week to everyday for 1 month and if i ask her to meet up she doesnt really seem into it. u see my point? like im killing the attraction! but if i dont text with her i will barely see or speak with her at all! sure see each other at parties in school and such but i feels like if i dont text / talk to her once per day she will forget me and some other guy takes her home and do what god only knows. nah but you get my feels? and i hate saying this but if i see a good looking girl i kinda melt att first sight. and i have a tend to get jealous even if i dont want to on guys that get succes with her! ( not acting jealous ofc, but its still a feeling" whatever, the more advice the better thank you all!

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    Default Re: So, experts and connection with the "target" and her friends. need help

    You should probably be more worried about what your game is like at those parties. Even if she's responding and your getting somewhere, your objective is to meet up with her, hence the party.

    There are some great advantages in being good at texting but ultimately it'd be easier if your game was solid in person. Twice now I've text a girl before an actual meeting (number off facebook) and it felt like the whole thing was going nowhere. It could easily be a testament to my texting game but I had felt like my texts couldn't have been funnier or more engaging. But the whole thing went nowhere, both times. Luckily, I got the meet ups; after a mind numbing amount of work. After the dates, the switched flipped. Both times the girls wouldn't stop texting me, wanting to hang out. But it was only after I nailed the meet up.

    Long story short, texting may only be as important as you make it. Work on your game in person and I'll bet you find much more satisfying results.

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    solid is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: So, experts and connection with the "target" and her friends. need help

    Quote Originally Posted by Bballking View Post
    You should probably be more worried about what your game is like at those parties. Even if she's responding and your getting somewhere, your objective is to meet up with her, hence the party.

    There are some great advantages in being good at texting but ultimately it'd be easier if your game was solid in person. Twice now I've text a girl before an actual meeting (number off facebook) and it felt like the whole thing was going nowhere. It could easily be a testament to my texting game but I had felt like my texts couldn't have been funnier or more engaging. But the whole thing went nowhere, both times. Luckily, I got the meet ups; after a mind numbing amount of work. After the dates, the switched flipped. Both times the girls wouldn't stop texting me, wanting to hang out. But it was only after I nailed the meet up.

    Long story short, texting may only be as important as you make it. Work on your game in person and I'll bet you find much more satisfying results.
    ye i agree with you. gaming in person is gonna give u pretty much more then texting. but nowdays you dont meet the girls to much. there is much more texting and facebooking going on and you miss out so much if some dude is good at texting so he actually can build something before he meets her and when they do they are already over each other. ( as i wanna learn ) i can be good in personal but boring at text so before / after the party it can suck pretty much!


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