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    Rusty_York is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default CRUCIAL 3rd date with ex HELP!!!

    Ok, so up until this point I have successfully gamed, slept with and almost almost gotten my ex back.

    The first time we hung out again we got drinks... light kino all night kissed her but told her I coulden't come up to her apt.

    the second time, came over and watched a movie. We slept together.

    Thursday will be the 3rd time we are hanging out. She is a waitress though and wont be off work until 10pm ish. What should we do?! I'm completely stumped.
    -Drinks again sounds a little cliche', boring, afc but it's my leading option right now.
    -Movie again would be nice but I think it may be a little presumptuous to just invite myself over. Also I am interested in dating her and all signs point to her feeling the same, so I don't want this to turn into just booty calls.
    -Food is an option but with her working at a restaurant it's very likely she will have eaten.
    -Bowling is an option. The bowling alley close to her pad is cool and you can drink there but she knows people whom will be working and I think its way too soon to be seen together again.

    SO experts please offer me some sort of advice here!!!

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    Default Re: CRUCIAL 3rd date with ex HELP!!!

    One thing I like to do is go to a spot in your town with a view of the whole town. All towns have one, maybe search yelp a little if you don't know any. Lay out a blanket, bring a bottle of wine and a couple glasses, and enjoy the view. This is one of my favorite date ideas as its secluded, its romantic, its cheap, and it is pretty much impossible not to make out there, which usually ends up going to my or her place to make out more and have sex.

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    Default Re: CRUCIAL 3rd date with ex HELP!!!

    Third date should be an activity date. Especially with an ex, where sitting down and talking risks running out of material to talk about. I don't know where you live, or what's available, so think about it.
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    aussiearef is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: CRUCIAL 3rd date with ex HELP!!!

    For someone who works till 10pm and so gets exhausted a DATE will be way too much. She will get tired and won't want to see you for a while.

    I agree with OG_PIMP's suggestion. Just take her to somewhere with a good view and spend a short time with her then take her home. She used to be your GF (and I think she is again) so you don't need to try too hard.


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