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    Default Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    Team,

    Hope everyone is well. I haven't been on these forums for a while but I need some assistance. Ill keep it short as possible.

    Im really into this girl, maybe a one-itis etc... But whatever, i know the GAME but I'm kinda stuck on how to proceed. I want to keep my self respect and be THE MAN in the situation. I wanna have sex with her, or get a fwb going.

    So this girl and I met a year ago, we were both super attracted to each other. She had a bf on and off that Im not sure she knew, I knew about. We hooked up but then she (I think) felt guilty, so months would pass before wed see each other again. We were in same community college. Anyways, I kinda got over it and broke contact and 5 months passed. In those months she's liked everyone of my instagram pics. Kind of like saying 'don't forget about me"...

    So last week, I txt her lets grab a drink and she agrees and is excited about it. So we go get a drink and then bounce to a mutual friends bar and eat and keep drinking. Now this is where it sucks: Her bf calls and meets up with us.
    Mind you, she's never mentioned him anytime we've gone out, and then he shows up. I mean, I've seen her instgram pics with him, so I think she knew I knew...

    Anyways, the thing is she's on my jock now... txting me to come to parties at her house, she's totally trying to hang out now, telling me crazy stories of her going down on a girl, and how she let her bf have sex with her best friend in front of her etc.. she also mentioned "well he had sex with someone , now its my turn" etc.. Also, she's super into taking molly now!!.... she parties.

    OK, so my question: I like this girl, I don't want to hang with her and her bf. How do I keep my relationship going without seeming like the boyfriend is getting to me? Do I deny invites to her house? do I brush her off? .... I think she's friendzoning the f**k out of me. She's talking about eating pussy and picking up girls with me/ for me etc...
    I treated her like a bro, kind of. I had no other choice. This is never happened to me with a girl I like. F**K ... I feel friend zoned as hell or like she's making me an "ORBITER", but I know she's still sexually into me. does that mean I'm not friend zoned? Im so confused , what would you do??

    how do I stay alpha and strong when this sh*t is bugging me. ?? I don't want to avoid the situation and look like Im running and that her having a bf is getting to me. What should I do??? ...should I just deep dive and say, "I cant go to your party, but you can come over next week and hang? ... And please don't say drop her and f**k other girls. Ill do that regardless, but this is "the game" and i want to win. please help ......

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    I'm not the most qualified to answer this as I've never "stole" a girl from her boyfriend or knowingly fucked a girl with a boyfriend (when she know that I know she has a boyfriend). But bro it sounds like she's into you (obviously). Her boyfriend fucked a girl in front of her and she was okay with it, and she even said she wants to fuck a guy.

    This is her IOI, she wants someones dick in her...and it sounds like that someone is you. Whether she wants to make her bf jealous, wants revenge, or if they're just in an open relationship, its your time to move in.

    I'd go to her house next time she invites you and game her as usual, even if her boyfriend is there. Pretend she doesn't even have a boyfriend. If she's cool with it then you should be. Assuming everything goes right (and hopefully she's a little liquored up) it should be an easy lay.

    I'd also talk about sexual things with her. She's clearly very open sexually. Talk about threesomes and shit. It'll get her thinking about you sexually.

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    I don't think stealing a GF is what a real man does! Plus Karma is a bitch and it will back to you sooner or later!

    By the way if you want a girl who has a BF I reckon you should learn some "BF Destroyer" techniques and use them over a period of a few weeks.

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    Let me begin by saying that I enjoyed reading your story.

    Now to cut to the chase, girl is trying to friend zone the sh1t out of you just like you said, it is very obvious. 9 out of 10 times I wouldn't let a girl talk to me about her sex adventures with other people (that one in ten times would be super hot lesbian sex if you're wondering).

    So from now on anytime she brings it out either give her very little attention and change subjects or even better, divert the conversation towards you sexually. Know that the more time you will spend listening to her sexual adventures with other people the farther you will be from yours with her.

    Another thing you need to do regarding the boyfriend, whenever she mentions him make sure you say "he's a very nice guy" or anything of the sort. "Nice guy" is the biggest turn off for a girl and if you notice they use it to describe every guy they friend zone. Also be nice with him, disarm him so that he doesn't even suspect that you're stealing his girl. [The boyfriend destroyers section would really help you]

    And last but not least, not sure I should be proud to know that but if she's into molly then you should know that this sh1t makes her really emotional and touchy feely if you'd like to take advantage of that...

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    Yo thanks everyone for the replies..

    Dirty:: ya man, that's what I did. I was super cool to her man,
    And when she talked dirty I kinda became aloof. All natural instincts
    Too. We were in a 3 person txt with another guy and she started
    Talking about pussy, and I totally ignored her. To be honest it grosses
    Me out a little her talking like that. .. Haha.

    I wil never let a girl I'm into put me In the FRIENDZONE. Dirty, here's a question
    For ya: " she's never ever talked to me dirty Like that. It was so left field.. She's a little
    Childish and it came across like she wanted me to think she was cool.. Why'd she do it?
    Mind you, she only told me details of her going down on another girl. I would never be beta
    Enough to let a girl tell me how her man fucks her... That's ridiculous. Haha.

    Anyways I posted the same exact post over at other pua forum , and they all said she wants you... They told me to hold my frame, don't go over to her party where I know she'll be with him etc... They said to just invite her out alone on my turf and escalate. Pretend she doesn't even
    Have a bf. it makes sense.. I've been doing that the whole time. let me know your thoughts !

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    Quote Originally Posted by inter1010 View Post
    I wil never let a girl I'm into put me In the FRIENDZONE. Dirty, here's a question
    For ya: " she's never ever talked to me dirty Like that. It was so left field.. She's a little
    Childish and it came across like she wanted me to think she was cool.. Why'd she do it?
    Mind you, she only told me details of her going down on another girl. I would never be beta
    Enough to let a girl tell me how her man farks her... That's ridiculous. Haha.
    You pretty much figured it out bro. There's this kind of girls that spend their lives trying to belong to different social groups, it's like they go through phases. Right now I would say she's into partying hard and everything that comes with it from unusual sexual situations to open relationships and narcs, she wants you to know that, she's just trying to be cool whether it's for her own ego or to get your attention. That is for you to figure out!

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    """""""""""""""" "You pretty much figured it out bro. There's this kind of girls that spend their lives trying to belong to different social groups, it's like they go through phases. Right now I would say she's into partying hard and everything that comes with it from unusual sexual situations to open relationships and narcs, she wants you to know that, she's just trying to be cool whether it's for her own ego or to get your attention. That is for you to figure out!""""""""""""""



    I couldn't of said it better. She wants attention from me. She wants me to think she's a cool party girl. and your right, phase fuxkin central bro.

    what do you think about what I wrote below that. Just ignoring the bf, rejecting going to parties or meet ups on her turf and just being alpha saying" come over next week lets grab a drink"? ..... then proceed todo my thing??

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    There's a lot of typical ways to deal with this but if you were to ask me I would do something else.

    Now this ain't something I can teach in a forum post but try to get the groove:
    You start by giving her less attention until the next time she invites you to a party where you know her boyfriend will be.
    You show up late and with a HB (like her or hotter), you gotta be on top of your game to pull that but it ain't that hard if you get it. On this specific night you need to own the place, you show up with a HB (or hell more than one if you can pull it) which gives you high value to begin with.
    You say hi to her and her boy: Be good to her boy as if he's your bro, make him think he's king (don't push it though). And then when it comes to her it is crucial that you say hi in a very sexual but discrete way. Like make your kiss close to her mouth or to her neck, brush through her hair while at it... you know, send her a clear but well calibrated message.

    After that you can move to opening every single set you can open, just be friendly and have fun with everyone but again, don't push it and show too much energy for this will come off as needy and try-hard. She just needs to see that you're not there for her and you're having one hell of a good time.
    The point is not to keep making out with your date but do show kino to the women there.

    Finally here's a little thing you can do at this point; if she's with her boy you can approach them with the HB that came with you and you aim for leading the conversation, the HB can work here as a wing to distract her boy so you can game her right in front of him and possibly isolate if it went well...

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    I got you dirty!!!

    That crossed my mind. I do have an hb 9 I can take to the party, but for some reason my INTUITION(and I trust this a lot) is telling me its not the way to go. It can be great if done subtly. I am very well a practioner of sprezzetura (not sure I spelled it right), the law of least effort.

    Its weird, its like she was doing that to me (acting with too much energy, and seeming try hard and needy for my approval when she was talking to the waitresses and her sex stories when we hung out before her bf showed).... I think Ive known her to a point where it will make more of a statement by nicely blowing her off, make her chase, then tell her to meet me on my turf for drinks.

    thoughts??

    ps. Ive been at a nightclub with a big group before with her and I had an hb9 kissing me all over, after that it took 3 times(good thing, cause 3 is my limit) txting her to get her to hang. had to freeze her out for 4 months. Then she liked all my pics(while she's in relationship) and hence I hit her up and she was super excited...

    thoughts?

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    Default Re: Girl has a boyfriend. I want her

    You may invite her out and escalate.be safe!!
    if you keep not taken action or delaying then you may end in the friend zone.knoe you won't..PEACE


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