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    Default Help..new town!

    Recently bought a house in a new area. I'm no PUA by any means. Thing is when I go out to local bars I'm usually alone because I don't know anyone. I feel wired approaching girls because I'm not sure if they have a BF with them and don't want to get into fights. About 6 months ago I was very confident and went out and closed a few numbers but they never turned into anything and this was in my old town. I feel like I lost the little game I had by moving and not knowing anyone. I feel like walking into a bar alone that people may thing I'm weird or something. Basically I been feeling out of place and invisible to everyone. Im never getting approached. I'm confident in my looks but I feel socially awkward. Also I have everything a guy could want but not getting success with social/girls. Have a high paying job,vehicles,motorcy cles,boats,house, etc. Also I live in a small town where it seems most girls are taken. Well most of the good ones. What the hell is my problem? Advice guys

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    Default Re: Help..new town!

    It's tough to try picking girls up in a pub or club without having a good wingman. I would suggest that you try day game rather than night game because you don't need wingmanship as much. If you find it difficult try approaching indirectly until you get your confidence back. This way you may even make some friends.

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    Default Re: Help..new town!

    Your problem lies way deeper than pickup old sport. You need to work on your inner game, if you don't even know what that means then you're way early in your journey to actually do the things you want in bars.

    Seek it, research it and learn!

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    Default Re: Help..new town!

    I'm familiar with all the terms of pick up. I have been reading on this site for a few yrs. I do agree that my inner game could be better but I feel like the problem is not knowing how to approach. I have approached girls before. I just haven't approaced in my new town yet. Being its a small town I don't want to mess up. I'm not sure how to act alone in a pub/bar. I went out alone a few nights ago. And found myself sitting and drinking at the bar alone. They were not many people there. The people that do go there all know one another. I know I should just say fark it and talk to any guy/girl there with the mindset to make friends. I just feel like if I fail and they think I'm weird ill blow it for the long run and be known for the weird guy every time I go there. Any advice on this? What would you guys do if you we're in my situation? I just feel like if I approach a girl, she already knows I'm trying to pick her up. She probably gets hit on everyday. I'm thinking ill just start day gaming and give the bar/clubs a break. Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Help..new town!

    If anything I can just game my old town where I know people. I just want to get out my comfort zone and succeed in my new town. Also it's more convenient to game my current town.


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