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    thegambino is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    I approached this girl 2 months ago. Good convo, asked for number and left. I messaged her sometimes but lost interest coz she replied late and went on vacation anyway.

    Saw her at the bus station last week and talked to her, was teasing her, making fun of her and used kino. Asked for her number coz I deleted it and said ill give you a call soon and asked her to kiss me on my cheek, turned my face and kissed her mouth.
    She seemed mad but I texted her and she replied immediately. She seemed amused though. I set up a quick date in a café but I cancelled it myself, something came true.

    Ok today I saw her at the bus station again and she laughed when she saw me. She said: You’re rude with a smile. Tried to kino her again but she said don’t touch me so I touched her arm anyway.I told her I can do anything I want to you with a smile.

    Afterwards I played with my phone and she said ok bye when the bus came. We both get in the bus and she went to sit next to someone instead of a two seated free spot where I could sit next to her. I passed her and said, pfft you shuld sit on a two seat.

    My question: What went wrong and what message was she sending by saying ‘okay bye’ after our little convo and sitting somewhere where I couldn’t join her.

    Though this weekend we made a deal (texting) to run together this week. (sport)
    I see her almost every morning at the bus station, how should I act towards her after this ?

    I know shes insecure I found out after this morning, her friend told me..
    I prob creeped her out or so, my gut tells me, guys how can i fix this coz i really like her...


    thanks!

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    Well you came on too strongly. With each girl you have to re- calibrate your game because not all girls are similar so you might want to switch things up a little bit. For insecure girls you have to take it slow and just talk . Don't rush. The good thing is insecure girls can easily be manipulated.( lol I know it's bad to say that but it's true 8/10.). So next time just say hi and start all over. None of that fast paced thing( even if she might have liked the kiss and is probably playing hard to get). Just play it cool
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    Her not sitting next to you in the bus might have been a sh1t test,don't practice telling girls that you may touch them with a smile because not every girl may resonate with that.
    She likes you..you know what to do...

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    I think she likes you but yeah I agree with the shit test and with telling girls you can do whatever you want to them is definitely a hang up for most chicks. If she is insecure don't directly confront her about it that's for sure that would only cause her to get very defensive and turtle up. You have to go about it subtly.

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    What about going to a different girl and start talking to her, so that your HB sees it? You know, don't have to #close or anything, just asking for the time, or what route is this bus running - the main thing is that you HB caught you talking to an other girl. Couldn't that work?

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    thegambino,

    Although I am new to this site, I am not new to pick up. I agree with what I read from the others as well. My advice is to take it slow with her if she is insecure but, do not let her think you are not interested. Maybe next time, invite her to sit next to you. I think she definitely did a sh1t test on you and, to me, that would only mean to keep pursing it. You need to build more comfort with her because it seems that she could still be debating on what she wants to do with you. And I also agree with HardRock, do not tell a girl you can do pretty much whatever you want regardless of what she just said to you. Turn situations like that into a joke to make her feel weird for saying it like "wowww someone didn't have their coffee this morning" (while smiling). Don't give up on her, just pull back enough to make her want you more

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    First thing i guess you didnt build enough confort with the girl and what about qualification?
    second thing i think you didnt act when it was time to act(ask her in the bus for meeting) and the teasing become boring with the girl..but there are more woman in this earth you can go and talk to forget about this girl go and meet some new womens

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    From what you wrote, I would say, she is into you Bro. Bail on the running date, that is what friends to. Take her out in the evening. Keep it kind of short, cuz if the date goes to shit, you can get out, and if the ate is going good, you can take it further. Get some kino going on during the date, kino leads to kissing and touching, and that leads to more intimate contact.

    Good luck Bro.

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    ya she is probably interested, but dont over analyze it. do whatever you want and dont worry about it.

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    Default Re: What message is this girl sending me? Need advice guys!

    She's into you man so stop second guessing yourself.
    Her not sitting next to you is just a shit test to see how you'd react so stop worrying.
    Girls love to shit test you when you come on THAT strong right off the bat. Mostly because they want to see if that's your true character.
    She's insecure? Build more rapport. Then qualify. Attraction is there. So next time you see her just smile and say hi, & then just talk to her. Then after a little fluff talk immediately start running qualifiers on her. I think Red Baron has a list in a thread of his. My favorite is, I really like (whatever kind of girls you like, I like fun adventurous girls) so what do you like to do for fun? Got any crazy super powers? With a sly smile. After qualifying just keep at it an she'll come around, & who cares if she doesn't.


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