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    Default Hard to get... Tease

    So, met this hb9 last weekend. Totally hit it off, got a number close and have been texting quite often this week. I'm having a get together at my place tonight. I told her she, along with some friends, should join...

    She answers me back with "I'm going to work out with my roommates and then do a quiz:/ I wish I could though!" (Keep in mind we're in college)...

    What do should I answer back?.. Her and I have been hinting each other that we want to hangout. She's playing hard to get, and I need some more advice on the text game.

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    She might not be that comfortable about going to your place yet, even with friends so try to aim for a more public place at first.

    It's no big deal that she couldn't make it this time just say: "You're going to miss out quiz liz, talk later".

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    I took your advice. I got no response, which I'm not bothered about.

    My next question is when would be a good time (not trying to seem too needy or desperate) to ask her to go out with some buddies to Top Golf (a three level golfing range). I really want to have a chill night on Friday , and I would like her to join, specially at a place that is not my own. I think it would be a really fun time and a good place to get to know her better.

    Advice Gentlemen.

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    Yea you shouldn't be bothered the point wasn't to get a reply.

    You could wait two or three days, chat her up first with a few texts to put her in a relaxed (and sexual if you know how) emotional state and then ask her to hang out in a cocky funny kinda way.

    If she turned it down for a silly quiz night this time as well then you should move on to the next one without giving it much importance, or try to build more comfort and try ONE last time after if she is worth it.

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    So far, I've been playing my cards just right. I've been getting pretty good at reading girls by the way they text, specially with this girl. Though sometimes I get stuck and ask for advice, like I did, I feel like a pretty solid game.

    When I get stuck though, is when I try new material and then not necessarily know how to respond back to it.

    I used the "So I was driving to work today and one thing kept going through my mind..." text. Worked perfectly.

    She said "What's that??"

    I ignored it, cause first off, I didn't really know what to back (I lied, I know NOT to say YOU). I'm just drawing a blank and cannot think of anything funny or clever to say back...

    Have not responded and 3 hours later, she double texted me "You never told me what was going through your mind..."

    Need help with some funny clever lines lads.
    Thanks.

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    "something i noticed"

    Ask her out state time and place...

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    Yeah man go out to a public place first before inviting her to a private venue. I mean I see guys do that all the time...with girls in a fresher state of meeting then where your at..and everytime it served as a rejection.

    I had them hammer me...ask her to come out to my place for a party..im like Boss I dont even have her number nor really talked to her more than casually what makes you think shes going to come hangout with some stranger? Gotta look at both sides of the ordeal.

    As well I one time was dating a hard to get type girl...and I remember we went out and ate lunch together..I was trying not to be to eager and just get some type of progress out of her.....then I closed up with her to leave and she said, Oh we can hangout at each others houses or something you know since we are so close.....I just confirmed that as cool by saying "Yeah absolutely we can do that sometime". I was amazed at how she suggested it and the "timing" was perfect by not me suggesting it too soon and letting things get comfortable and heated

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    Haha, I like this. Way to grab her curiosity, but you definitely put yourself in a pickle. This probably got way built up in your head after thinking about a response so long. Talk yourself out of it and look at the next step before proceeding from this one, it may take a little relevance away from it. Try and play it off like you misread it.

    Her: "You never told me what was going through your mind..."
    You: "Oh yeah, haha, it was all day. Weekends almost here! 4 more days! haha

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    I appreciate the feedback gents.

    I'll be honest and I know it's my fault but her and I have texted every single day since last week (which now that I analyze it, I shouldn't have, cause it probably caused a burn out)

    She hasn't responded back to my last text from last night and I'm not about to try to double text her.

    Should text her again later this week with something clever and funny or just plain out drop her?
    Like I said before, she seemed very interested and all but now I feel like she is freezing out on me...

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    Default Re: Hard to get... Tease

    Perception is everything. I can feel your sense of defeat simply from the way you wrote that. She didn't respond, oh well, forget about it. Don't have an agenda to text her in a couple days. You'll over think it and when that time comes you'll have built up an unnecessary anxiety. Grab a mind set that your not going to text her. End of story. Concentrate on work, concentrate on school, work out, keep your eye open for the next girl you want to talk to, do whatever you normally do. When the time is right you'll feel it. She'll be off your mind and you can dive in with something fresh. If you continue to think about your next move you'll only miss your opportunity to spontaneously come up with something great. I'll guarantee that.


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