For those of you who want the Tl;dr- I haven't had sex with my new GF, and instead we just talk. We've been close, but I couldn't get it up. I'm like a gay guy friend who just talks. How can I not be a pussy about this, and man up so that she doesn't lose her attraction for me?
After all this pickup work, I've finally got a girlfriend! I've been through loads of chicks, but none of them have really been as serious as this one.
Problem is, we haven't had sex yet (we've been "a thing" for two weeks) as I haven't really been able to get it up. I've taken off all her clothes but ended up just having to cuddle and talk.
I haven't had "the urge" lately, and the problem is:
every time I spend time with her (whilst we could be having sex) we just talk.
It's mostly me talking about me, all the time, telling stories about my life, etc., sharing things with her whilst literally sat on my bed. We don't even hold hands, we just sit there.
David D says that once you get into a relationship, you have to remember to keep on doing those things that attracted her to you in the first place. Flirting, playing hard to get, teasing, etc. Problem is basically there's maybe too much emotional connection, not enough physical connection. Like I said, it's like I'm her gay friend.
What do you guys think? How can I rectify the situation? Thanks!