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Thread: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

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    Default Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    Okay I'm not dwelling too much on this as life happens. However in order for me to learn I should follow through and see what happens and at least try to succeed.

    So I'm at the grocery store on Thursday. I see this HB9, mid to late 20's. I go direct, followed all the way through to comfort. Aside from her maintaining eye contact and being self concious about her overdue pedicure I got no IOI's. I mentioned that I was overdue for having a drink at a certain place in town and said if she wanted to enjoy another conversation then she should join me. She offered her email, I gave a sly smirk and said "you number would be better". N-closed and said I needed to test her humour and sent a text on the spot. My text was nothing big, it said "nice nails - my name" and stuck around and talked a bit more and I was the one that said I needed to go and eat. Next time I'll have a better on the spot text but I don't think it made that much of a difference.

    During our conversation there was a mention of me buying a lotto ticket as it's rare to met someone from Vancouver that was actually born here and to me that's good luck.

    Day 2 (friday 6:30pm) here is our texting;

    Me: so remember me saying I was going to buy a lottery ticket?
    Her: you did (instant response)
    Me: Yes and I WON (instant response)
    Me: You're good luck. 27 bucks, pizza for dinner tonight. I'm looking forward to my weekend plans. What r u up too? (5 mins later)

    Radio silence at this point

    Day 3 (saturday 4:30pm);
    (btw she grew up on a farm in a small town called Langley)
    Me: Hey Langley girl. Because you're a farmers daughter should I keep one eye open for a bearded man with a pitchfork?

    Radio silence at this point

    The truth is this is the exact type of girl that I'm looking for. The reality is I've been approaching woman for a while and I just don't get excited about the outcome because who knows what's really going to happen. Why am I here? Glad you asked, I want to learn from this. A. She's either not interested and gave me her number to end the interaction. B. she's interested but sh*t testing me. Or C. the unknown is occurring.

    Based on my experience here is my plan. Wait 2 days (Monday) and call her. If I get voicemail then I'm leaving a funny call back humor message. If I get nothing from that then I'll wait 2 more days and send one last low investment funny text.

    So although it sounds like I have my game plan set I would like to get an expert opinion. Please don't tell me to move on, believe me I approach 5 girls a day at least and usually go home with 1 number every time. But these HB9's I come across once a month so I want to see how deep the rabbit hole goes.

    What would an expert do....a real expert, someone who is too busy getting lucky to be on here much lol.

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    HB8 with glasses and no underwear just left my place, am I lucky enough to answer?

    The way I see it, you look like you pulled solid game there from the approach to closing to the texts you sent, nothing wrong at all there. Yeah you can improve the instant text and maybe a few other details but it doesn't matter that much.

    You sent the last three texts dude, that's like a red line for me. I delete the number and keep gaming the others when a HB ignores three consecutive texts like that.

    We all enjoy the ones that make it a challenge but I'm afraid that's not the case here. She's just not there and if you didn't do any mistakes that you didn't mention or pay attention to then she's just the one out of 10 that won't work for no reason. No one has a 100% success rate.

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    Thanks DOP. I needed to read that. I'm glad to see that one person said my texting was fine.

    I agree about your 3 text rule but I'm torn. Ya your right, I mean before texting was invented I would call a girl and if she didn't answer I would not leave a message. Then I'd wait 2 days and call again. I would repeat this 3 times and at that point assume she wasn't into me and move on.

    You say draw the line at 3 texts with no response and I feel the same way. But according to The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game book you should hang onto those old numbers and ping the girl every month. I do my best to take this info from books, this forum and a few other sources and use them as a guide and twist it into my own thing.

    So is that what most of you guys do, give a little effort for the non responsive girls and then just move onto the next?

    If this was a sh*t test then I would have won right? I kept my cool, waited a day to text again and was funny.

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    Quote Originally Posted by Trickster69 View Post
    You say draw the line at 3 texts with no response and I feel the same way. But according to The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game book you should hang onto those old numbers and ping the girl every month.

    So is that what most of you guys do, give a little effort for the non responsive girls and then just move onto the next?

    If this was a sh*t test then I would have won right? I kept my cool, waited a day to text again and was funny.
    Ping her every month? I mean I've been through some of these books but I've never stumbled upon such a thing. I don't see why you would want to keep reminding her of you every month if she was dead cold the first time and nothing happened. I'm guessing you misunderstood this one, they mean that you should keep texting once a month the ones that you K-close of F-close in the beginning.

    It's not about giving it little effort, it's about looking at the situation from a neutral point of view and making a judgement on whether you want to invest that much energy on making it work or not. Most of the times you shouldn't.

    Whatever she was doing, you kept your cool and that is always a plus. She knows it, and it bothers her.

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    This isn't a shit test, this is just an HB going cold. Happens all the time with N-closes, and 90% of the time it's because you fail to create enough attraction in the interaction. Like you said yourself, you got virtually no IOIs.

    Here's the truth, if you don't build sufficient attraction, text game will rarely be enough to dig you out of the ditch. I think your texting was ok, but I would have left the texting after "I WON" and waited for a response. One of the quickest ways to make an HB go cold is to send double texts. I'm telling you, it kills it all the time. The "I WON" text was a good cliffhanger and naturally left open the, "Really? How much?" text. But you weren't patient enough for her response. In the first few texts NEVER double text, as a general rule. Until you have really tight texting game, don't break this rule. If she doesn't respond you can do a mini-freeze out and ping her in a day or two.

    At this point you're not going to hear from her. So for future reference you should take this away: (1) Don't eject until you build enough attraction. If you're not getting IOIs then you haven't built enough attraction. (2) Text game typically can't make up for mistakes made in person. If you don't build enough attraction in person, then you're not going to get the response you want via text. (3) In the initial text exchange--and in general--never double text. There are exceptions, but until you have tight enough text game to know when it's acceptable, don't do it.
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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    woah man..

    don't use lottery excuse to ask girls out.
    its a bad practice sort of.she kind of wanted to see where it goes thus gave you her number.get attraction phase handled as said.either ways..

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    hmmm, I don't think Trickster69 was using the lotto as a way to ask her out but more as call back from the initial interaction to start a text chain.

    Either way it seems like she wasn't interested from the beginning and gave the phone number to exit the situation and was possibly being polite in her eyes by responding to one text.

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    Default Re: Daygame, HB9, N-close, 1 text.....Silence?

    Most girls may not hand their phone numbers out if there are not interested somewhat.why engage in the interaction if theres no potential. he may have gotten the got the attraction phase spot on but there were a few things..there are other ways to engage a girl which i bet he may knoe.the lotto reference could be avoided.


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