I'm a good looking guy, but am quiet. Im doing my best to push myself out of the comfort zone constantly trying to put myself out there. When day gaming, many women are naturally defensive. I'm having trouble keeping the interaction lighthearted and teasing to loosen her up and avoid her defensive position. That is why I'm also considering peacocking all the time such as piercings and painted nails.
-let me know any suggestions would be appreciated.