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    Question (POF) F Close...Now What?

    Met this girl online from pof and lives on campus about 30 mins from me. I invited her to my house and did my thing and f closed her she stayed the night. She left in the morning, gave her a kiss before she left. Now I don't know what to do. She did not text me the next day so I guess sex wasnt that great (I did make her orgasm though. ) or she is waiting for me to text.

    But I simply dont know what to say to make it that much closer to a second meetup, as I do want to see her again. Would be a simple "hey had fun saturday, it was wonderful, cant wait to see you again" kinda thing be fine? Or would i text her on the day I want to see her again?..Or ..? I am not sure on how to handle this..

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    Default Re: (POF) F Close...Now What?

    Well this could go a few ways and I'm sure you'll get a few schools of thought on this one. If you want here as a gf (do you really want to date a girl that easy?) then send and un related low impact text the next day. If you just want sex then wait 3 or 4 days and just send a random text.

    And yes, after sex the woman is waiting for a response from you. She wont text right away, after 5 days of silence she would probably break down and send you a "what's up" or something gay like that.

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    Default Re: (POF) F Close...Now What?

    First off, well done, always nice to get the outcome you hoped for. You had her over, you banged, there as to be some level of comfort. And you already got what you wanted, so what are you worried about? Relax, imagine the worst scenario here. You text her, she doesn't reply, you text again, she doesn't reply, you call, she doesn't answer, you never see her again. Damn. You F-closed her for heaven's sake, a well achieved accomplishment.

    But, dive into it with that comfort in mind. If she doesn't respond with the rapport that you already built, chances are she is that easy girl The Bartender was talking about, and you were just a notch on the ol' belt. Not a terrible thing.

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    Her: I like it
    You: Cool, lets hit up that Chinese restaurant tonight, I got an itch I want you to scratch with me

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    Default Re: (POF) F Close...Now What?

    I would leave it for a few days. like 4-5. If the sex was hot for you and you can't stop thinking of her, I suggest rubbing one out. This will help with the temptation to call.

    I would suggest her as a booty call, friends with benefits type of girl. Nothing wrong with that. But if your thinking serious relationship, I would cool the jets. Just drop her a light text, or even contact on POF.

    Good luck Bro.

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    Default Re: (POF) F Close...Now What?

    Anyone who's giving advice about waiting "x" number of days is out to lunch on this one. Whenever you hear hard and fast rules about days, 99% of the time they're bs used to cover up poor game (i.e., the three day rule).

    If I was into her, I'd drop a text the next day. Don't necessarily try to get another meet up right then (you can if you want), but I'd hold off. This is especially true if you sleep with a girl on the first night. If you want to keep it going you have to hit the brakes a bit and get back into comfort building. Often sleeping with a girl on the first night means you skipped some steps along the way and you're going to need to go back and work on them.

    But don't listen to "x number of days" rules. Each scenario is unique and you should do what works for you.
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