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    BobSherly492 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default I don't understand. Girl avoiding looking at me for no reason?

    Last week I met this really cute girl in one of my classes. I kept the conversation brief but if the 5 or so minutes that I talked to her, I did introduce myself, and I did flirt with her a little bit. Even though she came off as being somewhat shy, she seemed to respond well to me talking to her. She was asking questions too, she gave me her name after I gave mine, she had a huge smile (showing teeth) when I did a bit of flirting, and she was okay with shaking my hand.

    This week she sits in the chair right in front of me, but it seemed like as she approached the seat she looked everywhere in the room except for at me. She looked to my left, she looked to my right, she looked behind and down, but never behind and at me.

    If she's avoiding eye contact because she doesn't want to talk then that's okay. But if she wanted to avoid a conversation, why would she sit right in front of me? There's plenty of other seats. It just struck me as a little odd.

    I didn't take it personally or anything. During the break I talked to my classmate to my left, so no biggie.

    But have any of you experienced something similar? Or can shed some light on the situation?

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    HardRock is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Re: I don't understand. Girl avoiding looking at me for no reason?

    Ask her out.engage if you may. she likes you.

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    Default Re: I don't understand. Girl avoiding looking at me for no reason?

    This sounds to me like either she's just socially anxious and may be a bit intimidated by the social pressure of having to talk to you again, or she likes you and she's shy because she wants to make a good impression. I'd talk to her some more and see if she warms up to you.

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    Default Re: I don't understand. Girl avoiding looking at me for no reason?

    The above are both spot on. People are most comfortable around people they don't like (believe it or not). Her not looking at you is not a sign of comfort, a good and a bad thing. She seems to both like you and have a little social anxiety. Your going to have to be the one to make the moves here. Just go after it, and ask her if she wants to study after class.


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